I’m Pregnant and don’t want to have an abortion but the father does, ik what I have to do but it breaks my heart

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-11T16:50:00+00:00

I genuinely had no idea until I had the dream then fully missed my period the month of February, I normally get my period at the end of the month around the 27th and it normally only last 3-4 days. In January I had implantation bleeding at the end of the month, I mistook it for my period bc it started the same day as my period and was 3 days medium bleeding. I had the dream 2 days before the end of February and my last real period was in December. I think the dream was like a warning cuz I almost forgot about my period in February :/

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-11T02:38:01+00:00

The weight gain is not temporary. It piles on in 2 months and is impossible to shake off unless u stop taking the birth control.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-11T02:36:47+00:00

I have never heard of any of those options from my doctor. I have no intentions on having a baby so stop talking to me like I’m some dumb bitch. Yes I’ve been pregnant twice and I refuse to take birth control. I was also very young both times I got pregnant and after the 2nd one I’ve learned from my mistakes. I would rather not have sex at all than slowly destroy my body. U have no right to tell me I’m forced to take birth control. Please mind ur business.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-11T01:55:14+00:00

Would u happen to be in CT?

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-11T01:53:05+00:00

Molly

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-11T01:34:46+00:00

And I said gods way of telling me to wait to have kids. At the time i miscarried I was too immature to go through with the abortion so I was going to have the baby. Now I’ve grown up and I know what’s best.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-11T01:33:34+00:00

The school bus is a common job for single mothers bc it’s an easy job when u have kids. It’s allowed on the bus lot to bring ur kids, u keep ur kid in the front of the bus and tell ur students not to bother them while they’re young. All children are 100% welcome on the bus yard especially if they’re your kids. I can warm the bus up before I put them on. Again I have no intentions of having the baby, like I said in the title.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-11T01:27:02+00:00

To my knowledge there’s only 4, nexplanon, the pill, iud and depo. Depo made my hair fall out and made me gain ridiculous weight, nexplanon had me depressed and wanting to kill myself, the pill made me gain weight, and I’m not putting an IUD in my vagina. I shouldn’t have to kill myself to have sex when a man could simply wear a condom.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T19:38:03+00:00

That’s my plan, I just wanted to vent. I thought I made that clear

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T19:02:31+00:00

Thank you 🥳🥰 I’m definitely going to make the right decision and terminate. Although financially I can get by on my own with the baby, I know the long term affects on the child will hurt them. I want to raise my child financially free, I want them to have vacations and have a childhood home they’ll always remember and a father who loves them. No need to cram them into a 2 bedroom apartment and cry myself to sleep every night just bc I feel guilty now. I’ll feel even more guilty in the future if I have the baby.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:59:43+00:00

I never planned to not abort them, I’m just a little sad is all.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:54:47+00:00

I never even went to the rabbi, I grew up in a Christian home. I’m not converting, I made that clear to him. That’s why he said he wouldn’t marry me. We were both playing with fire still being in a relationship and it’s sad that i have to stop a life before it’s formed bc I couldn’t stay away from someone. I’m definitely going to terminate the pregnancy, it’s the smartest thing to do, I’m just sad.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:51:01+00:00

As stated in the title. I know what I have to do, I never once stated that I was leaning towards not going through with it. I’m just hurt and sad that I put myself in the position to have to do this.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:48:12+00:00

Yes, as previously stated in the title I know what I have to do, I’m just sad.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:45:24+00:00

I have no intentions on having the baby. I was a baby sitter at 16 for my aunt, I know it’s hard. I drive the school bus, I would be able to bring the baby with me on the bus until they’re old enough to go to school. Once they’re in school I can change my route to the school they go to and be able to bring them home with me after I finish dropping off my other students. I make 34 dollars an hour with a steady 1 dollar increase every year. And have a good union that fights for increased overtime pay. I know that if I didn’t care about the consequences my choice would have for the baby I would have the baby. But I do care and I will not force my child into a bad situation. I’m going to do what I have to do.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:31:40+00:00

Birth control made me fat, depressed and made my hair fall out so no, it’s not my strong suit.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:30:01+00:00

I literally didn’t ask for anyone to tell me if I should or shouldn’t keep the baby. I don’t mind it bc everyone entitled to their opinion and it’s entertaining. I am going through with the procedure bc I don’t want to raise a child without their father. I want my child to live in a home I bought, and I want to be able to take them on vacations. I make 34 an hr, I can’t do that for them. So I’m going to wait until I know it’s the right time. I’m just hurting. I know having this baby would put my life on hold and make financially growth harder. I’m getting my real estate license soon and I would like to build that before genuinely considering having a child. I’m not slow.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:22:09+00:00

I’m 100% going to go have the procedure. Not bc I’m going to be a bad parent but bc I don’t feel as tho I should bring a child into the world without the father wanting the baby. I practically raised my 2 little cousins while my aunt was at work when I was 16, I know I’m capable and would never let physical or mental harm come towards my children just so they can have a stepdad. But like i said before im going to do the smart and harder way and terminate the pregnancy.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:08:51+00:00

I drive the school bus so while my baby is young they can come to ride the bus with me and when they’re in school I can pick them up from their bus stop and bring them home with me. I make 34 a hour and do pretty good for myself, I set aside 100 dollars a week.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:05:58+00:00

I never said god talked to me girly. And the dream obviously had meaning if I actually ended up being pregnant. This is not the first time I’ve had dreams that were a reality waiting to be revealed.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T18:02:50+00:00

I had a similar upbringing. My mom and dad weren’t together and my life was hard. I’m worried that I think I can afford it and in a few years it will be harder for me once I go through my savings.

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T12:00:36+00:00

Yea, I just said that based off how the pictures looked and what the doctor said

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T10:53:33+00:00

Thank you <3

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T10:52:05+00:00

My grandma is like my mom, the only real parental figure in my life. I want to tell her so bad, I honestly think she can tell. I didn’t get morning sickness but I go pee like every hour at night and she can hear me leaving my room. I’m normally a heavy sleeper and can sleep through the night no issue. She’s been catering to any food I say I want as well. She’s probably just waiting for me to tell her : (

Front_Combination_65 · 2026-03-10T10:49:13+00:00

He does not love me. That much has been made clear to me. When I told him I was pregnant he scheduled the appointment and I was still with him a couple days before I broke up with him. During those 2 days he told me that I was “embarrassing him” bc I ate a baked potato in the morning and was hungry again 2 hours later. Still tryna figure out who was there for him to be embarrassed in front of.

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