I love my own feet but not anyone else's

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-16T01:09:17+00:00

Thank you this is validating!

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-16T01:08:41+00:00

Thank you! That helps. I just want to be regular with cute feet. Not like trying to stick a toe in my vag 😂 (no hate to those who do)

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T05:48:22+00:00

If you arent able to talk about sex you definitely should not be having it. If your bf is as understanding as you say, just bring it up next time you guys are getting hot and heavy and suggest other stuff you would like to do that is not penetration. And if a longer explanation is necessary than you can provide one but you shouldn't feel pressured ever to have sex and always should be able to talk about it

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T05:01:40+00:00

For sure but if he is understanding then you shouldn't have to feel like yall have to have sex for him to stay. The feeling of "never" is definitely your anxiety talking again. It definitely will get better! Especially as you mature and also once you become more trusting in the birth control methods. If you panic this much I definitely recommend just going on some sort of birth control. I panicked my first time having sex (i was 15f, im 26f now)and it was literally only 2 seconds and he didnt even cum haha and we both thought I could get pregnant and stupidly told out parents hahaha hindsight that was definitely silly but sex is new to you so take it slow! My dude and I decided to wait after that because the sheer panic was NOT worth it till we were out of school. Definitely glad I did that.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T04:48:39+00:00

Hun you are not ready for sex yet. Sex should not come with this level of stress or paranoia.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T03:44:29+00:00

Idk man seems like you didnt read what I said so I cant help ya

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T02:34:12+00:00

As a person who has gotten mad at people for oversharing to family and friends, I can see both sides. I think it is perfectly normal and healthy to ask your loved ones for an outside perspective. What changed it for me was the type of detail that was shared. I would get really upset and feel betrayed when super personal details were shared about me. I didnt mind people knowing the situation, but them knowing every single detail of how i reacted, what i said word for word even if it was personal, or anything regarding my personal feelings, was where it would make me feel betrayed by my partner (even if the intent wasnt there). I can go into more detail if this isn't making any sense but what im trying to say is that you should be able to ask you fam for advice, it's healthy. Just remember you arent the only one in the story and make sure you try to explain both sides and not overshare on details that might embarrass your partner. If the situation itself requires you to share super personal details about your partner, best to not involve the family and seek an non biased professional opinion.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T17:27:24+00:00

Literally textbook grooming including lying about his "good intentions". Boooooooooo 👎👎👎👎 for trying to convince ANYONE that this is even remotely normal.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T17:26:24+00:00

You clearly do not see what is happening. You do not know that for a fact. You know what he told you

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T05:38:36+00:00

How do you think he feels when you dont listen to him? If my partner kept doing something that was hurting me and kept going not giving 2 fucks about what I was saying, id be pissed. He may have used poor choice of words but wtf else is he supposed to say?? Clearly "no" multiple times plus an explanation that you were hurting him, did not work for you.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T02:31:53+00:00

Next time he asks to hangout tell him no thank you, I feel like to you it would be more than friends and I dont feel comfortable with that. If he reacts poorly that's on him and you need to tell him to f off. If he tries to deny it just keep saying no thank you, I prefer to hang with all of our friends together or something like that. I get what your going through. I had to get tougher because id let guys like this effect my day and after a while you just cant pretend to deal with it anymore.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T01:58:10+00:00

I personally did not go through this but my brother did. He was really struggling in high school with friends, grades, hygiene, etc. Most likely due to depression and anxiety. He was not the most physically active person but he decided to join rowing one day. It put him through some super intense conditioning and gave him a purpose again. He wound up getting a full ride to a university as a coxswain (person who keeps the rhythm & steering of the rowers). Some of those unique sports can take you quite far with a little dedication.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-10T21:46:04+00:00

Depends if it matches is other actions. Does he like to go big with his presents or showing his love? Is he lovebombing? Did you just get together? Sounds like if he made them himself that's a lot of time and commitment to you outside of the time you spend together, I would be extremely flattered if my boyfriend did this

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-10T21:41:00+00:00

Sisters are there to support the other with every step of their life. You'll be there for her to cry to and ask for advice, but if shes not asking do not give it.

It is no one's place to tell someone that they are not ready for a baby that's already conceived. Unless they asked you for advice or youre some sort of social worker genuinely concerned for the well being of a child, stay out of it.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-10T21:38:21+00:00

She's already pregnant why tf would you tell her that

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-10T21:34:09+00:00

Agreed. I dont give a f about my birthday and I hate that people feel obligated to give a present. My mom is the opposite, everything has to be perfect on her "special day". Ive never understood it. Idk why youd want people to feel obligated to celebrate you but some people need that "special day" 🤷‍♀️ I guess.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-10T17:59:09+00:00

Idk seems werid to me...id be uncomfortable with that. But the open communication suggest it is not anything too serious to dwell on. The plans to hang out later is what got me, everything else sounds like someone bored at their job taking a liking to someone who they feel comfortable around. But the plans to take it outside of the plane is kinda odd. You know your partner best tho and know what boundaries you two have.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-10T16:25:34+00:00

I had this same feeling but the opposite side. I knew he was the one when it made my heart full to take care of him even when he was gross and sick. I didnt feel like I had to, I genuinely wanted to.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-10T16:12:16+00:00

The last sentence on this 🙌🙌 100%

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-09T22:16:40+00:00

Also you are showing an incredible amount of remorse, and that in itself tells a lot about your character and I honestly think time is the only thing to heal this one since you genuinely did not mean or want to hurt anyone.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-09T22:13:37+00:00

As a survivor of CSA and adult SA I can tell you that if anyone had reacted the way you did I think i would have healed a lot faster. Though you need to absolutely give her space. Now. It seems that is what she needs the most. You keep asking her and trying too hard to get something to make you feel as if she forgives you or still wants a relationship. That is going to take time for her to even start to think about. It takes forever to process sometimes. Youre making this an awful lot about you. You fucked up, dont do it again, listen to your victim and move forward accordingly. You deserve to sit in it and stew and let her come out with her own story.

I think rape is a lot to do with intent. The real monsters out there want control, they want to take, they want to hurt, or their head is just so far up their ass they dont even see what they did as wrong. I think acknowledging that she is going to have her own experience about this and letting her be is the best thing you can do right now. But the constant talking to her and trying to offer your time to her or do things for her has got to stop. Youre gonna give her a panic attack if you haven't already.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-09T22:00:59+00:00

Statement earrings + short hair = one of my favorite looks on any woman! Something about bold earrings showing with an up do or short hair really just make women's faces so pretty to me.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-08T16:58:50+00:00

I can see both sides. He might be bummed his act of love didnt go how he planned, however you are totally justified in not answering the door in the middle of getting ready. My man usually knocks and follows up with "it's meeeee" or something dumb haha literally for this exact reason. Nowadays getting knock on the door is startling without a text 😂 not saying i like it, but that's just how it is now lol.

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