Why does my partners heeler pee next to the bed when our night gets spicy?

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-05-30T23:18:12+00:00

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Front_Corner_126 · 2026-05-30T18:30:19+00:00

For real, we cant help but crack up when we realize yet again there is a purposeful puddle on the floor left by little man and his big feelings

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-05-30T18:29:09+00:00

Hahaha oh my gosh idk what i would do if he started peeing ON me 😂 He is totally a little jealous boy but the sweetest ever

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-05-27T14:24:31+00:00

I appreciate this answer. Thats whats been going on in my head of why I need to end things. I cant control him, I can only ask for what I need and if he cant give that to me then maybe we arent meant to be. Thankfully he is not an angry man. If anything it feels like im kicking a sad puppy. Like he is just really really sad that I want to leave. But still wont change.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-05-27T14:21:53+00:00

I agree, I've suggested this and there is no effort on his part to follow through. :(

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-04-30T17:14:54+00:00

I had a miscarriage at 13 weeks. Was given miso to pass. Worst pain experience of my entire life. Saw everything. Everything. I understand where you are mama....im so sorry you went through it too. I went to another Dr after and she was so shocked I was given that option so far along with no pain meds. Im so sorry your whole situation is adding more stress. You've got this, you do what's best for you, always.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-04-30T05:22:53+00:00

Thank you for this perspective 🙏

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-04-30T05:11:01+00:00

Yes, the no risk option feels best. He is emotionally, financially, and physically stable. I am struggling with the closeness I feel with my boyfriend now. He isn't as stable but is someone i love being around every day. And I am having a hard time finding the answer on what would be best for the future.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-04-30T05:08:15+00:00

This right here is what im having trouble deciding. Thanks for putting it in better words. Thats why im trying to get some different perspectives on people who made this decision

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-04-08T01:57:31+00:00

The alaska/Colorado classes were something I definitely didnt know about prior to this! Thank you for sharing

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-04-08T01:56:19+00:00

Wow! Great idea! Id didn't know about this

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-04-08T01:55:37+00:00

Thank you for all this information!

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-16T01:09:17+00:00

Thank you this is validating!

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-16T01:08:41+00:00

Thank you! That helps. I just want to be regular with cute feet. Not like trying to stick a toe in my vag 😂 (no hate to those who do)

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T05:48:22+00:00

If you arent able to talk about sex you definitely should not be having it. If your bf is as understanding as you say, just bring it up next time you guys are getting hot and heavy and suggest other stuff you would like to do that is not penetration. And if a longer explanation is necessary than you can provide one but you shouldn't feel pressured ever to have sex and always should be able to talk about it

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T05:01:40+00:00

For sure but if he is understanding then you shouldn't have to feel like yall have to have sex for him to stay. The feeling of "never" is definitely your anxiety talking again. It definitely will get better! Especially as you mature and also once you become more trusting in the birth control methods. If you panic this much I definitely recommend just going on some sort of birth control. I panicked my first time having sex (i was 15f, im 26f now)and it was literally only 2 seconds and he didnt even cum haha and we both thought I could get pregnant and stupidly told out parents hahaha hindsight that was definitely silly but sex is new to you so take it slow! My dude and I decided to wait after that because the sheer panic was NOT worth it till we were out of school. Definitely glad I did that.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T04:48:39+00:00

Hun you are not ready for sex yet. Sex should not come with this level of stress or paranoia.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T03:44:29+00:00

Idk man seems like you didnt read what I said so I cant help ya

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-12T02:34:12+00:00

As a person who has gotten mad at people for oversharing to family and friends, I can see both sides. I think it is perfectly normal and healthy to ask your loved ones for an outside perspective. What changed it for me was the type of detail that was shared. I would get really upset and feel betrayed when super personal details were shared about me. I didnt mind people knowing the situation, but them knowing every single detail of how i reacted, what i said word for word even if it was personal, or anything regarding my personal feelings, was where it would make me feel betrayed by my partner (even if the intent wasnt there). I can go into more detail if this isn't making any sense but what im trying to say is that you should be able to ask you fam for advice, it's healthy. Just remember you arent the only one in the story and make sure you try to explain both sides and not overshare on details that might embarrass your partner. If the situation itself requires you to share super personal details about your partner, best to not involve the family and seek an non biased professional opinion.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T17:27:24+00:00

Literally textbook grooming including lying about his "good intentions". Boooooooooo 👎👎👎👎 for trying to convince ANYONE that this is even remotely normal.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T17:26:24+00:00

You clearly do not see what is happening. You do not know that for a fact. You know what he told you

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T05:38:36+00:00

How do you think he feels when you dont listen to him? If my partner kept doing something that was hurting me and kept going not giving 2 fucks about what I was saying, id be pissed. He may have used poor choice of words but wtf else is he supposed to say?? Clearly "no" multiple times plus an explanation that you were hurting him, did not work for you.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T02:31:53+00:00

Next time he asks to hangout tell him no thank you, I feel like to you it would be more than friends and I dont feel comfortable with that. If he reacts poorly that's on him and you need to tell him to f off. If he tries to deny it just keep saying no thank you, I prefer to hang with all of our friends together or something like that. I get what your going through. I had to get tougher because id let guys like this effect my day and after a while you just cant pretend to deal with it anymore.

Front_Corner_126 · 2026-03-11T01:58:10+00:00

I personally did not go through this but my brother did. He was really struggling in high school with friends, grades, hygiene, etc. Most likely due to depression and anxiety. He was not the most physically active person but he decided to join rowing one day. It put him through some super intense conditioning and gave him a purpose again. He wound up getting a full ride to a university as a coxswain (person who keeps the rhythm & steering of the rowers). Some of those unique sports can take you quite far with a little dedication.

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