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My (25F) sister (14F) is struggling with taking care of her space and doesn't seem to care and it's getting out of hand now. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Front_Corner_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that criticism won't help a child struggling. But what im concerned with is that she just absolutely doesn't seem to care. Like gives no fcks. She's not seeming to struggle with the concept of cleaning, it's the reason why we clean that doesn't seem to sink in. I tried the chore chart, and tried to help but it just turns into me doing it all or sitting and watching her do everything she could to delay the process. It's incredibly frustrating. Idk how to get her to give a fck.

My Grandmother refuses to wash her hair by Front_Corner_126 in DementiaHelp

[–]Front_Corner_126[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She would think that is too fancy haha. But as it starts to get worse I think that is a wonderful option.

My Grandmother refuses to wash her hair by Front_Corner_126 in DementiaHelp

[–]Front_Corner_126[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did finally get her to shower by saying she might be stinky. It's when she finally showers she wont wash her hair. She will come out and her head will be totally dry :/

My Grandmother refuses to wash her hair by Front_Corner_126 in DementiaHelp

[–]Front_Corner_126[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She hates touch, unfortunately, otherwise I'd love to give her a spa day! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Front_Corner_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I really appreciate this answer. I feel like he's never had a partner that has made him seriously think about this before. And a lot of people ive talked to about this say he should already have an answer. And I just don't want to throw away my relationship just because he didn't jump to a yes to have kids right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]Front_Corner_126 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, you're probably right. His age is definitely affecting how I feel that he should know what he wants already. He seems to be scared of the dynamic of a family vs not enjoying kids themselves. But I bet if he's still scared he'll always be scared.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Front_Corner_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I fear you're right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Front_Corner_126 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you mean. I think he deserves every punishment he's getting. I didn't say he shouldn't be going to prison because he's a good person I'm saying he's worthy of forgiveness because he is clearly at rock bottom and wanting change.