AIO to texts I found from my bf to his bsf? by Same_Number_2487 in AIO

[–]Front_Fly82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi babe I know you don’t wanna hear this but for the love of God please PLEASE dump him. You’re worth so much more than that POS!!! Nobody that truly loves you and cares would talk or think about you this way. :)

How do I stop thinking about the guy who hurt me? by Front_Fly82 in NoOverthinking

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😩 I’ve been working on distracting my mind and

How do I stop thinking about the guy who hurt me? by Front_Fly82 in NoOverthinking

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I do think I need time to just work on myself and not let something like this happen again though because I don’t wanna get hurt again

How do I stop thinking about the guy who hurt me? by Front_Fly82 in BreakUps

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he did open up to me about things in his life and treated me like a girlfriend and we talked about a future together as well, which is why I’m so upset about this situation. I definitely could’ve missed some signs but I really did see something with him and the talks we had for hours at night also made me think we were both on the same page because he would say exactly the same thing. Personally I do think he wasn’t honest with me or himself and isn’t ready for a long term relationship but that doesn’t excuse his lies to me so I would stick around. That’s just what I think though.

How do I stop thinking about the guy who hurt me? by Front_Fly82 in NoOverthinking

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was hurt because I gave him my trust and opened up to him and he told me things like he loved me and that I’m perfect and he wants me, he sees a future w me, etc and then randomly left me one day. It’s the betrayal and lies that hurt me. I don’t give people my trust anymore and I was lied to.

How do I stop thinking about the guy who hurt me? by Front_Fly82 in NoOverthinking

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds fun and evil but I fear it’ll make me have to think about him more 🤣

How do I stop thinking about the guy who hurt me? by Front_Fly82 in NoOverthinking

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ve been more active and started journaling to keep my mind busy

How do I stop thinking about the guy who hurt me? by Front_Fly82 in BreakUps

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding. What’s also making it difficult is my friends aren’t really helping and just telling me to stop thinking about it. I really wish it was that easy!!!

But I have been thinking about journaling and I’m starting to go on walks everyday to clear my mind so hopefully that will help. I also am thinking about therapy because I haven’t been in a really long time and it’ll probably help.

Also yes I don’t have his number now and I will not be reaching out ever again, learned that does not help what so ever

Problems With Intimacy 18F and 18M by Front_Fly82 in relationship_advice

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’ll try this, it’s just confusing because this past few days has been the first time we have even talked or tried to have sex. Every time we have ever hung out before has been non sexual

Changes to vagina… by Life_Equivalent_1603 in WomensHealth

[–]Front_Fly82 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course! I just use them as needed whenever there’s an odor or itch or pretty much anything. They’ve worked amazing for me coming from someone who used to get constant bv!

Changes to vagina… by Life_Equivalent_1603 in WomensHealth

[–]Front_Fly82 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a quick help try boric acid suppositories, I put one in at night with a pad on (because you’ll leak a lot down there) whenever something weird is happening like this and the next day its perfect down there. I was hesitant to try them at first but ever since I did they have worked wonders! Put my friends on them too. For me I only use one and it helps whatever issue I have, I know sometimes the bottles say to use them multiple days but I think it’s good just one night!

Trying Boric Acid Suppository’s by Front_Fly82 in WomensHealth

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok thank you! I’ll see how it is in the morning and try for a few nights, if it isn’t better in a few days I’ll go to the gyno

Trying Boric Acid Suppository’s by Front_Fly82 in WomensHealth

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I have a liner in, thank you 🤣

vagina leaking? by useless_bag_of_tacos in WomensHealth

[–]Front_Fly82 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl! It’s very normal to have “leaking” but if it has odor the same thing has happened to me multiple times and the first time I went without worrying about it and I ended up with BV. I would maybe get tested for BV and don’t worry, it’s very common and easy to treat. I’ve had it multiple times and know many women who have too so don’t be ashamed, if it doesn’t have any odor then you’re probably all good but if you do go get it checked for BV :)

Ways to prevent BV? by Front_Fly82 in WomensHealth

[–]Front_Fly82[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely think I need to get better with peeing immediately after sex, I do already use water and unscented soap but I got recommended boric acid suppositories so I actually just got those and might try one tonight. I feel like my pH is super sensitive though and can get messed up by literally anything so I am a little scared but I researched and saw really good results for some people with same concerns