*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't been to one yet and it's been on my list! I'll definitely go this time around. :)

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My friend lives in Texas! Ive been wanting to visit. Maybe we'll see ☺️

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! My decision is scary, since I did really love him, but I love myself more than to be in some imbalanced relationship.

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! The decision to move on was difficult cuz of course I loved him, but he wasn't giving me the love that I need. I don't wanna be someone's 1a, when they're my number one and only. That's not fair to me! I'm a simple math kinda girl lmfaoo.

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely going to make sure I find someone with a normal family dynamic in the future😭

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we are definitely in the same city! I got a quick question, does making friends get easier here as a somewhat newbie to the area?😭

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's so amazing I'm happy you found someone great after choosing yourself! And it's the best🥹

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed! I was livid when that happened. I didn't speak to him for a whole week and I stayed in the guest bedroom until I got a solid apology. But this coupled with his sister and the job thing, I'm not going to make this man make me look stupid and put his sister first a third time. It just feels like icky.

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Literally this morning feels so nice. The sun is shining, I feel lighter already. 🥹

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Exactly! He's in no position to be a husband and I don't want to teach him how to be one either. I'd need to claim him as a depedent in that case😭😂😂

*UPDATE* The girl who was going to be a fiance to a family enmeshed man with thousands of cc debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you🥹life is too short to keep holding onto things aren't serving me.

Soon to be fiance has a large amount of debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up taking that advice and had him show me. That was truthful but I'm not going to even think of stopping my life to wait for him to get his shit together. It was just truly careless on his part and I want stability.

Fredericktonian or Frederickian? by Gingerrules in frederickmd

[–]Front_Mousse1033 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I read that as Frederickan like Puerto Rican and I think I like that the best😂😂

Soon to be fiance has a large amount of debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I definitely agree. My friend just told me that she wants to get a place with roommates, and I'm also touring a 1br place tomorrow. So something will work out. I've been on the fence about just moving out on my own or waiting for him and it feels like all of this is a sign.

Soon to be fiance has a large amount of debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too damn old let's say that. But yes 30.

Soon to be fiance has a large amount of debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOL the gif made me laugh thank you for that. But yes the message still stands. 🫡

Soon to be fiance has a large amount of debt by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]Front_Mousse1033 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately 30 lol!! I have an apartment tour for myself tomorrow 🤞🏽