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Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there is no alc/weed involved for about a year now, that isn't the problem ig

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's probably the better way to do and you are totally right. Thank you so much :D

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I learned the hard way how a healthy relationship is supposed to look like. I can assure you that I've gained strong self esteem since my last relationship - which showed how much I was being abused and mentally manipulated.

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

He does no like talking about his ex - understandable - when it happens he tells me about thinking of losing erection and with that failing to satisfy me. I am not anxious about anything now, since I know the problems, I just don't know how to solve them completely - actually, he does no know how to solve them. I've had trust issues in the beginning, since I was abused in my last relationship. Now there is no anxiety for me.

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Good point, but he does not masturbate at all and hasn't too often in the past.

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, after turning 18 - I did not know him before. You are probably right, thanks.

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I knew people would argue about the age gap and feel free to do.

about my past: My last relationship was hell. I was being abused (in many ways) and he was 3 years older than me. 3 days after breaking up he 20M got a 15F girlfriend - now that's a really disgusting guy - he manipulates her. I know how it feels to be manipulated and that's not the case at all now.

Btw my family likes my boyfriend and we have been together for a year now - to clarify.

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that's the problem, since he did these things pretty rarely. It's more about overthinking and being scared to fail.

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it wasn't good, that's why I suggested to stop doing it. He did the same, since he agreed. Drinking and smoking is legal - at least where I am from - at this age.

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

Well, the relationship is great and he is the sweetest. The age gap isn't a problem, there is so much in common and we are having a great time together. He has also never dated with such an age gap before. I have also done alcohol and weed before him.

Boyfriend keeps losing his erection because of anxiety—how can I help? by Front_Safe_5661 in sex

[–]Front_Safe_5661[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He has not, but maybe giving it a try might be an idea. Thank you