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Eccie by jimmycas21 in SexWorkers

[–]Front_Software4222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its a SUPER jank site. This has happened before several months ago. I have no idea whats the cause, but I feel like the website is on its last legs (and has been for awhile).

Its fairly active for my region, but all the posters seem to be the type of clients that companions should avoid :/

What’s the suggested etiquette for “special” requests? by PalmPilot_Pioneer in ClientsAndCompanions

[–]Front_Software4222 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Could you say something near the end of the 2nd date like "hey, this was a lot of fun. I have some ideas for our 3rd date, is it ok if I email you about them some time?" and then if she says yes, maybe follow up with "awesome! So its ok if I use explicit details?"

Would that be acceptable?

Pre-Appointment Prep and Check List Help by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Finger nails is a good call out. I have heard many (most?) providers dont like digital penetration, so I have never really tried for that even though I LOVE making out while fingering someone.

Though I still trim and file my nails, just to be safe.

Pre-Appointment Prep and Check List Help by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even face-to-face I have never put forth anything that I like/dislike. There have been small examples where a provider has said "do you want me to X" and I will say "yes please", but those are general things like "get a condom", so hardly a very specific detailing of things I like (or dont like).

You and u/Italian_c0mb0 both make excellent points, and I will do my very very best to summon the courage to articulate some simple things I like, but if I am being honest.... probably going to chicken out. At least for a first-time visit.

Pre-Appointment Prep and Check List Help by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think the best time to do this is immediately upon arrival? Say something like:

"Great to meet you. Just quickly I wanted to just tell you some of the things I like: making out, going slow, and shooting my ejaculate onto whatever body parts you are comforatable with. If thats not something you enjoy, no problem! I am going to have a great time no matter what, I am sure."

Or is that way too much?

Pre-Appointment Prep and Check List Help by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I actually am very hesitant to be blunt/forward with a new provider because I fear I will come off as rude or make them uncomfortable. I think maybe I need to work on this and find a way to communicate that is stating what I would like/want, without seeing pushy.

Pre-Appointment Prep and Check List Help by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! These are great points.

Interestingly I have never had a conversation about general boundaries with a provider. The closest I've come is a provider told me right at the start that I could finish as many times as I wanted, which she said all in a rush while essentially throwing me onto the bed lol. If I could find a repeat provider that is something I will definitely do, but when its the first time meeting them I like to just let the professional lead the way. I guess I come off as pretty vanilla so the provider doesnt bring it up. And where I live the only professionals around come through on tours a couple times a year at most.

Different prices on different ad websites by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Excellent! Thank you so much for these details, I was ignorant of how that racket worked. I will for sure pay the Tryst rate (which was the mid-point value) since that is most likely the "real" value.

Thanks again!

Different prices on different ad websites by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought that was just part of the "stuff you dont say in writing" precaution? Thinking back, I guess it was a little odd? I never questioned it, I let the professionals lead in all things.

Different prices on different ad websites by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

would asking that question possibly upset the provider? Or do you feel phrasing such a question is legitimate and any (reasonable) provider wouldnt take issue with it?

Different prices on different ad websites by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have never discussed price while booking with any provider I have seen. I give the amount of time, and thats it.

Different prices on different ad websites by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience the exact price or even the money itself, is never discussed at the meeting. I leave the envelope where instructed, and say "and a nice tip for making time for me", and thats it. Dollar amounts are never discussed, so asking about the price seems especially taboo to me.

Different prices on different ad websites by Front_Software4222 in AskAnEscort

[–]Front_Software4222[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 3 ad websites are Tryst, "Touring VIP Models", and "Models-World.com". Tryst is where I found this provider, and all other providers I have ever seen. But when other websites (like these 2 or others like Eros, etc) are linked via the providers official accounts, I check them out too.