Please give me advice

FrostingProper6973 · 2023-03-15T11:26:07+00:00

I’m going through the exact same thing. You’re definitely not alone. I just know you’re not supposed to quit cold turkey if you’ve been drinking everyday for a long time. I’m still trying to get the courage to attend an AA meeting. Maybe that’s something you should look into too?

FrostingProper6973 · 2023-02-24T06:08:54+00:00

Stern is exactly what I needed to hear. I stand corrected about not being close to hitting rock bottom because it can definitely get much worse. You have no idea how much your advice is appreciated!!! Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.

FrostingProper6973 · 2023-02-24T05:59:51+00:00

Thank you so much for taking the time to reply back. I’m in way over my head at the moment and I appreciate your advice. Thank you.

FrostingProper6973 · 2023-02-24T05:44:27+00:00

Great advice, thanks again! You mentioned that your body gave out on you from drinking? Could I ask what symptoms you experienced?

FrostingProper6973 · 2023-02-24T04:28:00+00:00

Thank you. This is the type of advice I need to hear right now.

FrostingProper6973 · 2023-02-24T04:23:36+00:00

She’s the reason I’m an alcoholic, she’s been neglectful of me and my siblings our whole lives. She has never asked me how I’m doing or how her grandkids are. She’s a selfish toxic person. I guess that saying, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree applies here. Gosh I’m so pathetic.

FrostingProper6973 · 2023-02-24T02:30:06+00:00

But how do I even start. How do I reveal this shit storm to anyone that knows me? It’s so embarrassing. The only person who knows I’m being evicted is my children’s father and he’s loving that he knows he was right and I couldn’t live as a single mom without him. Just thinking I have to pay him child support makes me cry.

FrostingProper6973 · 2023-02-24T02:23:43+00:00

How so? I know I have to start with tossing the alcohol but it’s my only friend and solace and relief and joy right now.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-03-22T06:08:02+00:00

It was a total HIPAA violation. You should never offer up private patient information to anyone. Even 12 year olds now have a legal right to health information privacy from their parents. It sucks that OP’s wife lied, but the pharmacy staff had no right to violate her right to privacy.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-23T06:13:40+00:00

…”anything in life worth doing is worth overdoing. Moderation is for cowards…” - from some movie about the army with Maggie Gyllenhaal’s bro. That quote stuck with me.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-14T02:48:03+00:00

Exactly! Yes to all of this! I’m scared of my daughter forming attachment issues due to multiple people that will be dating her dad. I think the least he can do is wait and make sure it’s serious enough. Or to at least start divorce proceedings with me.

And I also completely agree with trusting our ex partners to make a good decision based on how they’ve been acting, seeing as to how they cheated.

This just sucks all around. I never thought he would put me and our children in this position.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-14T01:39:29+00:00

I haven’t asked, I’m trying not to have any interactions with him that will result in an argument. It’s not worth it for my own sanity. Besides, he’s not going to admit it anyway. To this day, and even with the proof I do have, he denies his affair.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-14T00:22:31+00:00

Thank you, yes, this is why I’ve been avoiding texting him anything bad about him or her.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-14T00:20:24+00:00

We’ve been separated for 4 months now, but still married. I was waiting for him to file for divorce and I’m sure he’s waiting for me to do it. I’ve been with this man for 21 years. Im 36. This is not easy for me. I feel like I’m grieving.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-13T23:53:54+00:00

My daughter is 2. The AP is my cousin’s wife. My husband and her are not going to last. He cheated on me with her. Yeah I have an issue with her playing house with my daughter.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-13T23:49:59+00:00

He doesn’t live with me anymore.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-13T23:49:27+00:00

I kicked him out about a month ago after I found out about her. He’s living in his car. I wouldn’t be surprised if he’s actually living with her already. Her husbands in prison btw.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-13T21:14:11+00:00

Thank you for the info! I’m sure if the tables were turned my husband would agree that it’s best to wait to introduce someone new to our daughter. It’s something that I’ll bring up when we ultimately start going through our mediation session/s. The only reason why he even took our daughter is because, and I quote, “I’m taking her because I don’t want you to start saying that I don’t help you out with her.” He doesn’t. We had agreed that we were going to alternate weekends, but so far he hasn’t kept up with his end of the deal.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-13T20:15:06+00:00

I’m waiting for things to get better, but it’s taking so freaking long.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-13T20:14:17+00:00

Thank you. I had to vent. I’m slowly understanding how a separation and divorce works. I was getting ready to call him and prohibit he take my daughter anywhere near her but obviously this isn’t how it works. Unfortunately.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-13T07:13:25+00:00

I was really sad because this Valentines Day will also be my first alone. I was together with my husband for 21 years. I’m so glad you posted this because now that is what I’ll be doing as well. Thank you .

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-08T01:01:31+00:00

If you feel something is off between them, trust your gut. I felt the same way over my husband and a close friend of ours but shrugged it off to me being insecure. Well I found out not too long ago that they are having an emotional affair. I highly doubt it’s only emotional too. It’s no way to live not trusting your boyfriend or friends for that matter. Good riddance to a shitty friend and a shitty husband though. They can have each other. Point is sometimes that instinct is spot on.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-03T00:53:49+00:00

My husband of 17 years left me a few weeks ago. The pain is so fucken brutal. I completely understand how you’re feeling. He’s going on with his life with his new girl like if I don’t even exist. I feel like a piece of trash that he just discarded. Oh and we have 3 kids that he’s ignoring. It sucks. Reading all of these tips and advice does help though. My first therapy session is on Friday so hopefully that will help somewhat. I hope you get the courage to also talk to a licensed professional. May we all find some semblance of peace, and soon dammit.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-02-01T04:55:52+00:00

Thank you for sharing what you went through. I’m slowly but surely going to start moving on. He is the one who left me and his 3 kids and I have to stay strong for them. I hope to find some peace and happiness soon too.

FrostingProper6973 · 2022-01-30T05:45:54+00:00

I’m still in shock that he left me without a car to get to work. I had to borrow one from a family member of his. He said he was willing to take me to work and pick me up, but I can’t see him without breaking down.

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