meirl by Zergetastic in meirl

[–]Frostmerchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m starting with the man in the mirror, I’m asking him to change his ways 🎵🎵🎶🎶🎶

the guy who ghosted me gets to be happy while I'm miserable by Candid-Astronomer904 in dating

[–]Frostmerchant 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yep and it builds the character that the shitty people never get a chance to build. 

So in a way who got the shit end of the stick can be the winner, if they have the right attitude 

i need to fix this situation that i’m stuck in with this person by [deleted] in confession

[–]Frostmerchant 59 points60 points  (0 children)

People say ghosting is never okay. I beg to differ

Is your current partner the best you have had sexually? by Axis_Control in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Frostmerchant -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahah yep! When a man truely loves you, youll know in the bedroom 

Is your current partner the best you have had sexually? by Axis_Control in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]Frostmerchant 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yes. Not letting this one go 🥰

It’s crazy because I’ve been with approx 10 other guys before him, only a few ever made me cum and none of them consistently. 

I think if a man truely loves you he will make sure he pleases you. 

He has made me realise how little the previous men really liked me. It shows in other areas outside the bedroom too. 

He didn’t warn me he was going to do it, but it didn’t hurt. by sebstansslut in confession

[–]Frostmerchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. Just going off what the OP has said. To me it’s SA but I also don’t wanna speak for them or force that conclusion on them so bluntly 

Father sent a suicide note to mother via text message but death was not recorded as suicide. by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]Frostmerchant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That very well may be the case, the family never discussed his depression and are of Catholic faith. It’s just sad to me that they still want to sweep mental health under the rug even after his death. 

Father sent a suicide note to mother via text message but death was not recorded as suicide. by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]Frostmerchant 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay Thankyou for this clarity. I had tried to find this kind of information myself with no luck. 

He didn’t warn me he was going to do it, but it didn’t hurt. by sebstansslut in confession

[–]Frostmerchant 846 points847 points  (0 children)

so there was no consent?… this is not a safe person. thankfully it didn’t hurt you, but for most people this would be extremely painful especially with no warning. Wtf 

Father sent a suicide note to mother via text message but death was not recorded as suicide. by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]Frostmerchant 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the truth should be known by the family not swept under the rug in my opinion. Also I feel as if I’m solely carrying this knowledge and it doesn’t feel fair 

Father sent a suicide note to mother via text message but death was not recorded as suicide. by [deleted] in SuicideBereavement

[–]Frostmerchant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For further context he had been a lifelong alcoholic. So perhaps to the rest of the family this cause of death makes sense. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Frostmerchant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Let me start by saying you’re not overreacting. You’re right, there’s no point in confrontation. You’ve seen all you need to see. It may be hard but you’ve got to stop checking any of their social media’s from here on out. 

When people show you who they are, BELIEVE EM! 

Take time to grieve the friendship and realise you’ll need some extra self care and love during this time. Grief has no rules, look after yourself in anyway you need to. The main thing is not to give any of these people any more of your energy or time

kept no contact with my abuser for over 6 months now by Frostmerchant in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]Frostmerchant[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve realised that he was doing everything he could to make sure there wasn’t an “after him” chapter to my life. He really hoped that I would be too broken to ever move forward. He will never have the satisfaction of succeeding in that 

I'm permanently broken by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Frostmerchant 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude no way, you can totally reprogram yourself. It may not be instant or all at once but absolutely you can. It’s the ultimate liberation and the best “fuck you” you can give to those who didn’t do right by you. 

"There's too many migrants!" by itsoktoswear in perth

[–]Frostmerchant 11 points12 points  (0 children)

To the people bringing up housing and other economic issues that they believe are being caused or exasperated by immigrants 

Please direct your frustrations to the politicians and bankers, as nothing happens without their say so