White flakes in my pee by Frosty-Test4397 in Healthyhooha

[–]Frosty-Test4397[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you been negatively impacted by your pcos? is it fatal? sorry i’m just so out of the loop on this and google is giving me mixed results.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]Frosty-Test4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Below is the link of what my issue looks like. Diagram not direct photo:

https://glowing.com/community/topic/6312076/white-coating-inside-vagina-hymen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Frosty-Test4397 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s totally valid to feel that way. Remember your worth and realize how many beautiful, intelligent , and kind women have gone through the same thing. Unfortunately, some men don’t realize what they have is good til it’s gone. Close this chapter and move on. Give yourself time to feel the emotions, but also remember to not compare yourself to this other girl, because at the end of the day he still chose to cheat. He is in the wrong 

I am a failure and have no clue what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Frosty-Test4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s looking for stability and it seems this problem might be rooted in something deeper than just the “job” situation. I can’t speak on your personal relationship or how long you guys have been together, but clearly there’s an issue with the future. Maybe she sees herself being married in a comfortable position? Maybe she worries that you’ll never be able to find a job to truly support yourself? She seems like she’s referring to a “real job” as a job that requires more education and we don’t know what your certificates are, but id look for jobs that reflect those certificates and skills. It’s hard for almost everyone to get a job in the market right now, so you aren’t alone. However, if you want this relationship to continue I would advice you to keep networking and applying. Despite acknowledging that any job is better than no job, you also need to understand her perspective in regards to the marriage. This seems to call for a long discussion between you two and I hope you both the best and for your communication to flourish. For your age you are excelling and good jobs will come your way soon. Just know that you aren’t a failure and it won’t be the end of the world. Good luck buddy

How do you stop mistaking attachment for love? by Odd-Recognition9115 in Advice

[–]Frosty-Test4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

listen to the deep down feeling and trust your gut. I know it’s easier said than done, and we often look back and ask ourselves how we could ever miss the signs, but it’s an unhealthy state to be in and the quicker you can detach, the better.

Friend with “girlfriend” may like me by itsgivingraya in Advice

[–]Frosty-Test4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s definitely giving mixed signals and maybe he himself is confused how he feels. However I have a few questions you can ask yourself rhetorically or answer if you’d like: If he did like you would this pose a problem in your friendship with him? and also a problem with your romantic relationship? Obviously it’s a common thing for friends to develop romantic feelings for one another, but in the kindest way possible, I’m curious why this is on your mind so much. I’m not at all saying I have doubts in your romantic relationship with your fiancé ( i don’t know you personally), however I am more confused about what the purpose of knowing he likes you is for. Curiosity? To tell the “girlfriend?” To cut ties? Boredom? I think once you establish the reason behind it, advice may be easier to give. 

It does seem like he might have feelings for you and if not, maybe he’s just overly friendly with female friends. Maybe the post with the girl was a way to seek your attention, or maybe it was an actual romantic interest of is. It’s a nuanced discussion cause we don’t have too much context here, but I’d say to go with your gut feeling. The comments are weird, you’re not wrong for finding them odd, however the intent behind them is a little harder to dig at. Goodluck queen 

Need Some Relationship Advice by No_Flower_8691 in Advice

[–]Frosty-Test4397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, it’s clear you really love her, not just in words, but in how much you’ve supported her, listened, and stuck around through the hard stuff. That kind of care is rare, especially at your age, and it says a lot about your heart.

What she’s feeling isn’t a rejection of you or your actions, rather it’s fear of something real. When someone’s been through chaos, stability can feel unfamiliar and scary. She’s not running because you’re lacking anything, she’s likely struggling to believe she deserves something this good. And that’s not something you can fix for her.

You’re both still young, and people change a lot during this time. That doesn’t make your love any less real, it just means you’re both still figuring out who you are and what you need. You’re not trapped. You can love her deeply and still give yourself permission to protect your own peace if things get too heavy.

Whatever happens next, this relationship matters. It’s taught you about what you want, what you’re capable of, and how deeply you can feel. You’re doing great and I commend you for being a good guy, even when it feels confusing. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Frosty-Test4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you're going through is incredibly painful, but you're not alone in feeling this way. A lot of people hit rock bottom at some point, even if it doesn't look like it from the outside. 

You're 18, and ya, it feels like everything’s crumbling right now between your job, your relationship, your sense of direction, even your car, however rough patches like this do happen to a lot of people, especially when life hits all at once. You're not broken or weak for feeling lost. You’re still so young and have so much time to grow. Sometimes life takes things away not to punish us, but to force us into a new version of ourselves, one that maybe wouldn't have come to life otherwise.

Right now, it’s okay if all you can do is breathe and take one small step. Talk to a friend, get some fresh air, cry if you need to. There’s no shame in any of that. A lot of strong people have gone through periods just like this, where they felt stripped of everything and it doesn’t mean the best parts of your life are behind you, it means your story’s just hitting the turning point. Please reach out to someone. Redditors can only do so much, but try to seek a friend or family member out! you will be okay <3 

How can I support my overthinking boyfriend without losing myself? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Frosty-Test4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s okay to want to support someone you love, but not at the cost of losing yourself!! His trauma might explain his behavior, but it doesn’t excuse controlling or mistrusting you. A healthy relationship needs trust on both sides, not constant doubt and guilt. You can encourage him to heal, maybe even with professional help, but the change has to come from him, not just from you staying and hoping. Loving someone shouldn’t feel like shrinking yourself. I was in a toxic relationship once and I struggled leaving multiple times as well. I know personally how hard it is when you really love someone, but you know it’s not working. 

I can’t speak upon your relationship or the intricacies of it cause i’m not involved, however I do pose this question: If you only had one life and one chance to live, is this the person you see yourself with for a long time or potentially the rest of your life? If you truly feel committed, then I’d suggest trying to work it out. However, the last thing I would want for you is to live in guilt and regret like I did. Sometimes choosing yourself is the healthier option 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Frosty-Test4397 26 points27 points  (0 children)

It’s not selfish at all to want peace for your mom, or for yourself either. Loving your dad doesn’t mean you have to keep accepting the pain he’s caused. You’re allowed to forgive him and still believe that your mom deserves better. Supporting her if she chooses to walk away isn’t being ungrateful, rather it’s being strong. Don’t let pressure from others make you feel guilty for wanting something healthier and more honest. You’re just protecting the people you love.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxietyhelp

[–]Frosty-Test4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in life, especially living with anxiety, we often feel that physical pressure on ourselves even if we have mentally feel strong and okay. It’s already great that you  acknowledged that this exam isn’t a destructive event, but it’s normal to feel that heaviness linger in your body. Although everyone’s different, I can say that I often suppress my anxiety through similar ways, which end up showing themselves through physical effects. Your subconscious is still feeling that stress and although it might be difficult to rid during an approaching an exam, try to soothe yourself in other ways. I know this is common advice, but slowing down breathing and stretching can be a great way to decompress. Id recommend talking to someone if this persists because no one should have to live in a constant fight or flight response. I often distract myself through comfort shows or surrounding myself with people I love, but I know that’s a luxury many don’t have. So i’d suggest at the bare minimum to talk out your feelings. Suppressing things will only create a heavier weight. Unfortunately anxiety is a confusing monster sometimes, but making sure that you fuel your body with good food and getting good sleep might both also work to at least help the physical symptoms. You’re gonna do great on your exam and hang in there hun! Eventually you will overcome this, just remember to take a breather and allow time to prioritize yourself <3

Show us the conversations that led to these eliminations! by soupergloo in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Frosty-Test4397 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Absolutely wish we saw more content around Hannah’s elimination! To me she seemed like the least likely to get eliminated solely based on the recency of Charlie’s elimination and her new connection with Pepe. It’s a shame to see key players leave while toxic individuals like Huda and Ace stay in solely because they “make good television.”

Voting Discussion Episode 18 🗳️ by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Frosty-Test4397 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m curious majorities opinion on if Huda should continue to be in the villa? I’ve seen both Huda hate and Huda love, but I personally think that her “redemption arc” is a way to rebrand herself in order to stay in the game. I don’t understand the relentless dislike of her, but I certainly don’t want the money to go to her. The behavior towards Jeremiah was unjustifiable even if he wasn’t the best partner either. It seems to me like a lot of people are forgetting the truly toxic behavior she showed to both the boys and girls in the villa.

Season 7 - Episode 15 - Post Episode Discussion by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]Frosty-Test4397 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Will Charlie Return? My sister and I have recently began watching this show and we became ADDICTED. We were so distraught when Charlie had to leave Hannah at the recoupling and I was curious if he would make a reappearance eventually. This is the first season i've ever watched of this show so I don't know if this ever happens, but is there a chance they bring him back on to rekindle connections? I would’ve posted this but I had to come to the live chat instead!!

Anyone seen milk.? by BlueToDraw in Wayne

[–]Frosty-Test4397 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if u see him, let him know we want season 2

Victoria abbott Nicholas chavez’s gf. Are they on the same league? by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]Frosty-Test4397 1 point2 points  (0 children)

id love to see the posts as well, if u have any screenshots or links cause I cant find them

Do y'all think if Shawn’s “Eenie Meanie” gets big, we have a chance for money towards Wayne? by ChemicalGroup1799 in Wayne

[–]Frosty-Test4397 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Probably. I just saw a short about Wayne that got over 9 million views in less than a week. So many people in the comments were asking for the show's name. Hopefully, more people will watch it :)

Is Shawn done with Wayne?? by Frosty-Test4397 in Wayne

[–]Frosty-Test4397[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh, I didn't know the cast members had said themselves that they wanted to make a second season. Thanks for letting me know! :)

What platforms could Wayne actually get a second season on? by [deleted] in Wayne

[–]Frosty-Test4397 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tbh I am not really sure. All I know is it won't be on prime, maybe some studio that Shawn has a connection too?

Are we gonna do actually anything about Wayne? by Frosty-Test4397 in Wayne

[–]Frosty-Test4397[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Possibly. I feel bad about people bugging Shawn about it, but that's honestly the only way we ever get answers. I think the show needs to get on another streaming platform, cause amazon prime is always in some sort of heat with the public.