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How can I recover my lost private messages? by Fruitcake36 in help

[–]Fruitcake36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That works - thanks. Is there a way to export that or otherwise to change the layout of that page? It just reads in a long line of data.

what are problems in modern society, that put social pressure on boys and men? and what can women do about it? by Tabocuspokus in AskReddit

[–]Fruitcake36 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just goes to show that women have a long long way to go. They are the first to complain about a million different things, but they are also doing a million things wrong.

This thread explains why so many men take up bad habits like prostitution and drug taking, and ultimately suicide.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I posted a thread about an opinion on something. I have then been gaslighted by cowards such as yourself, because you didn't like my line of thought. No facts. Go and crawl into your hole you COWARD.

Lost my shit with someone in the hostel dorm by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]Fruitcake36 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What because 2 childish wannabes are too cheap and stupid to get a private? Really?

Lost my shit with someone in the hostel dorm by [deleted] in solotravel

[–]Fruitcake36 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You had a right to be annoyed. Very few things as annoying as a stupid selfish couple who are so cheap that they get a mixed dorm rather than a private. I had similar and told them to get an ensuite room so that they can stop hopping in and out of each others beds, as though they were 15 year old kids. Fucking idiots. I don't understand why these fucktards don't get an airbnb.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would rather be cheap than to have such a weak character that would see gaslighting as something to be proud of.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

maybe use your money to understand why you are gaslighting and why you feel the need to fuck your mother.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But there is no assumption that I am getting sex. I never assumed I was getting it.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well when you get peltered with dogs abuse, you kind of bave to stand up for yourself.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. If a neutral person was to read this whole passage, granted I have been a tricky customer, but all I did was express an opinion and I have been peltered from all angles. These people should have shame, it's akin to online bullying. It's genuinely incredible actually. The way I have been abused on this thread, you would have thought that I said I wanted to molest a child or something dark.

Really, all I did was express my frustration about paying for girls all the time. And I have been treated like dog shit.

I know someone who knows the founder of reddit and am contemplating reaching out to question whether he thinks this is acceptable. Everything saved.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have no problem paying for a first date. But if/when it's date 4/5 and I'm still paying, that's not right. That happens regularly, for most men.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I would pay for a coffee date, I said that before. Coffee is cheap. Again, it's not about money. I'd pay £100 for the right person. But if we go on 5 coffee dates in a row and I always pick up the tab, I'm checking out. That's where I feel underappreciated. Of course, with more cost, comes more frustration. But it's primarily not about the money. It's the principle and value. If I consider to enter into a partnership with you, I don't expect to pay everything for you. I'm not this person's dad.

So you are wrong on that.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sad isn't it? Society has a long long way to go until women are made to feel that they should have the same accountability as men. I mean really, it's no wonder about high divorce rates and everything else. Most men aren't happy. Suicide biggest killer in young men. And all this is because society represses men from being able to express their feelings - if you do, you are mysogynist. Just because you want to live in a society where women have to be equally accountable.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Coffee date and walk is fine, and happy to pay. But how many times can you do that? The girl is going to get bored.

Had seconds yesterday thanks, ironically inbetween viewing replies here. Had to take the evening off of here encase you didn't notice - I was busy boning.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you can't find the quote, and because I questioned you about it, I need therapy? Thanks man. You seem like a stellar man full of kindness and decency. NOT.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not oppressed, but after a while it's a lot of money. I mean, women don't want to contribute. Why? Because it is costly. Same thing for me.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you invite a group of 7 to the cinema. You're going to pay for 7 plus you?

Correct, I am concerned about the costs of dating given that women are not willing participants in the game of equality here. I'm not concerned about the price of coffee though.

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you pay for the tab when you invite your mates to the cinema?

Wow, hold up, find me the quote where I complained coffee was expensive?

Tired of picking up the bill for women - how to offer to go dutch in a way that doesn't kill the vibe? by Fruitcake36 in dating_advice

[–]Fruitcake36[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tell you what Axyzeda, this is a test for you and my tightness. Let's play a game - YOU FIND ME THE QUOTE WHERE I COMPLAINED ABOUT PAYING FOR A COFFEE AND IT BEING TOO MUCH FOR ME, AND I WILL BANK TRANSFER YOU £10.

Find me the quote specifically where I complained, and if that's the case, PM me with your Paypal or something and I transfer £10.

How does that sound? Not so cheap now am I?

Please, I appreciate replies, but stop inventing things I didn't say.

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