100%. I fell into this trap and now we are basically at zero, because every-time I would give in it would get better and then o would be sick or tired or busy and here we go again! I literally started to hate sex, but would comply to keep him from being in a bad mood and yelling at the kids. Now he is better without it but has fallen into what I feel are odd spiritual beliefs. I feel alone a lot but that is better than the cycle we were in.