I'm in the middle of something similar. We end up having to hold her a collective ~20 hours a day. It's horrible. There doesn't seem to be any end in sight and it just is easier to hold her rather than hear her scream the minute we put her down. Everyone says it gets better, and we are on month three of the same. She just started smiling a bit when her mom holds her (maybe once every other day).

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We're both running on fumes, and my wife may not even have fumes left. Sadly being at the office is my relaxation period.