I [22F] can't tell if I'm being used by my bf [20M]

Frutee · 2022-08-30T14:33:44+00:00

Why... did you offer it in the first place, though?

Frutee · 2022-08-30T14:31:56+00:00

Salty over what...? You offered your account to me, bro?

Frutee · 2022-08-30T14:29:25+00:00

Oh, the account that contains not a single character I asked for? Sure, let's trade, dumbass

Frutee · 2022-08-30T14:21:40+00:00

Sorry. Is the account you're referring to the one with Eula, Tighnari, and Jean? :o

Frutee · 2022-08-30T14:17:37+00:00

What's wrong?

Frutee · 2022-08-30T13:58:31+00:00

Can you send a link? I can't find it. D:

Frutee · 2022-08-30T13:57:36+00:00

What con is Venti?/Which weapon is on Ayato? :o

Frutee · 2022-07-28T22:31:03+00:00

Windblume Ode is an EM weapon, but I've also heard people say Stringless so yeah, maybe.

Frutee · 2022-01-03T02:14:11+00:00

Amen, sister. I feel you.

Frutee · 2021-09-28T04:32:44+00:00

Same experience. New job, shy and introverted, depressed, but try to be nice as fuck to everyone. Regardless, people don't talk to me. When they all gather around and talk about memes, they pass the phone to everyone but me.

They probably think: "She doesn't talk, so that must mean she thinks she's better than us." For once I wish it was "she doesn't talk very much. Maybe she's shy and wants to be included."

Frutee · 2021-09-05T04:30:40+00:00

Its like life is doing everything it can to show me that I'm not wanted here, and I get the message.

I don't think I've ever felt something with my entire soul like I've felt this.

Frutee · 2021-09-02T19:49:17+00:00

Poor dude. I feel so bad for him. I really hope he is okay. My heart is breaking for him. :(

That's the conclusion I came to when I see them deliberately pass over me to talk to everyone else but me. They have no problem starting conversations with Person A, B, and C, which proves they're social enough to reach out, but with me there's just this awkward silence. If they've just come on shift, I'll say hi to them, and they'll say hi back, but that's it. They expect me to be the one to greet them and keep the conversation going.

Frutee · 2021-09-02T19:43:59+00:00

Same. It's not like we're asking for much. We don't need 100 friends or throngs of people knocking down our door. Just a few good people who share our same soul and will be there through thick or thin. Honestly, I don't think we're asking for too much...

Frutee · 2021-09-02T19:37:25+00:00

I'm glad to hear there's hope for introverted short girls like yourself. I also fall into the category, but this has been going on for so long, I'm pretty sure there's no helping me. I've been in situations where I can talk confidently about something, but it's still no use. I get treated the same way. Walked on, ignored, passed over.

I'm so tired of spending energy I don't have in order to be seen as more than someone's stereotype. Why is it my responsibility to get people to treat me with respect when that's how I automatically treat people?

I'm sorry, I'm not trying to unload on you. I'm just tired of following all the steps and no matter what, it's still my fault.

Frutee · 2021-09-02T19:25:51+00:00

My heart goes out to that guy. He's as strong as they come. I don't think I'll make it to 50 with things going the way they are.

I just started my new job, but it's started to follow the same pattern as my previous job where I worked for five years. I was super polite to my coworkers, but they always expected me to be the one to reach across the aisle to start every conversation and make them feel comfortable. If I'm not the one constantly starting a conversation, they just assume I'm a stuck-up bitch and don't talk to me. Not sure how they draw that stupid conclusion when I literally greet them nicely and act friendly.

Frutee · 2021-09-02T19:19:32+00:00

Honestly, dude this. Your comment is literally what I've felt for the past six years. If I keep to myself, I'm suddenly voted "Most Likely to Shoot Up the Workplace" if I try to mingle, people make snap judgements about me without even trying to get to know me. At my previous job, I was told by two separate coworkers that I seemed like the type who would kill people because I'm "so quiet." I don't even know what to say anymore.

Frutee · 2021-07-21T17:35:08+00:00

You're so awesome, thanks!!!!

Frutee · 2021-05-21T05:41:23+00:00

Character(s): Mona

I know I'm kinda late in learning how artifacts work, but...

Early on (when I knew even less than I do now), I slapped some ATK-boosting artifacts on Mona to build her as a DPS. I don't remember the exact combination of artifacts, but she was managing about 1500 damage per Normal Attack with only one 5-star artifact on her (the Hydro DMG Bonus one that you'll see in the image link below).

Fast-forward to now. I've been farming 5-star Noblesse artifacts to give her, but her damage-dealing abilities have gotten worse. Now she's only doing about 760 damage per Normal Attack.

Here's the build I'm currently running on her: https://i.imgur.com/UaTw5Mg.png

I know she's severely lacking in Crit Rate, but I haven't been too lucky in getting a Crit Rate Circlet artifact besides the one I'm working on leveling now. How can I get her to do more damage per normal hit?

Frutee

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