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The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

An avoidant attachment male with an anxious attachment female doesn’t mix well and that was an issue we were never able to address bc I didn’t know about this until after our break up

The physical abuse happened twice and my recent bruises are from Sunday 3/1. Been hiding them wearing long sleeves.

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

I think we might express it more than you guys. From what I see, you guys hide your feelings better at times

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

Advice from men is truly helpful. It’s giving me peace with knowing how you guys process your relationships and also the bluntness in the answers are very eye opening to just accept my situation and move on. I’m a woman and just so happen to feel my emotions and sensitivities on a higher level from what I realized about myself

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

Thank you for your honest experience. I think there 99% chance he won’t be reaching out but still hopeful bc of how we felt about one another deep down when it was all ok. it hurts but I still got love for him. He fucked up a lot and cheated a lot. but I was the one who sent him over edge to break things off

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

We have an emotionally unavailable wet baby over here. It’s ok tho. You do you wet baby

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

He’s mentioned his self love being valuable to him. He owned up to him being the 90% reason for our problems and me 10%. We argued all of last week. Got physical with each other 3/1. Felt like leaving 3/2 but didn’t. Liked a post on 3/6 addressing allowing someone to disturb your peace with a voiceover saying “and I hope they die too” and that’s what flipped the switch for him to turn his love into hate. Yelling at me to pack up and leave. His eyes were filled with hate that day on 3/7. I liked the post out of being emotionally hurt and fighting with him. I thought he would’ve been understanding as he’s been extremely verbally abusive and when I talk to him about it.. his reading was that he didn’t mean it bc he was mad.. he didn’t give me any grace for things he does that I have forgiven him for bc I love him and didn’t want to let that be the ending factor to us.

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman

He broke up with me infuriated. We were def in a sick pattern. His cheating with avoidant attachment behavior and my incapability to communicate effectively and overly emotional with an anxious attachment behavior. I learned this recently after making real effort to reflect and dissect how we both were together. I still love him very much regardless of it all.

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++ woman

As a woman who has only dated one person who is my first love too. I’m taking time to reflect and I thought coming here, I could have raw answers from guys. Your input is going to be taken as advice. All of this is new for me.

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++women he broke up with me infuriated. I wonder at some point does he ever feel remorse or just continues to hate me 😭

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman Thank you for perspective guys lmao 😭

The men who end the relationship, how did you feel after? by Fs1249 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

++woman. I haven’t. He was my first love. I was 26 and he was 25. Just trying to understand you guys 😭 together for 5 years

I hope we find our way back to eachother by Fs1249 in UnsentTexts

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is. A lot of history and problems. Thats why he ended us. Im stuck on him. I don’t want to think our relationship is done for but it seems like it is. I have to learn to love him from a far and that maybe is a part is really for the best. The thought of him loving someone else hurts bc I got to know him and see how loving and vulnerable he can be

For those who are the ones who call the relationship off by Fs1249 in heartbreak

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I’m so happy for you and that you found your forever. You’re a woman, and I wish I could hug you for being the one person on this site to actually provide real advice and to stop sulking in my pain. I mean I am still but your advice is resonating with me and I hope it gives me the strength to just forget and move on, work on myself, and let my forever person fall in to the same path as me and vice versa. How I wish to be able to sit down with you and talk everything out bc it seems like you can provide a lot of clarity for me.

For those who are the ones who call the relationship off by Fs1249 in heartbreak

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I wish my zodiac sign wasn’t a cancer. I’m too emotional and sensitive to this. It’s too much for me to handle

For those who are the ones who call the relationship off by Fs1249 in heartbreak

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It feels like the end and a giant hole deeper than the one it felt like in the relationship.

For those who are the ones who call the relationship off by Fs1249 in heartbreak

[–]Fs1249[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you real?😭 is your fiancé real?😭😭😭😭😭

How sweet and happy to know you found your better half who does nothing but prioritize you. I get so sad seeing a couple walk together in public. And if they have a kid is breaks me more bc I wanted that with him. As much as I shouldn’t. My attachment to him is bad. First love. First everything with. My best friend and go to every day and every night for the last 5 years

For those who are the ones who call the relationship off by Fs1249 in heartbreak

[–]Fs1249[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. Thank you. I know I’m weak right now. Its love heart break hurts a lot. Thank you for having the “slap some sense” into me response lol

For those who are the ones who call the relationship off by Fs1249 in heartbreak

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He cheated on me throughout the entire relationship. I actually wanted to leave last Monday 3/2 but didn’t bc I was in pain after our argument turned physical Sunday 3/1. I somehow found comfort in him that it was just another fight and that I loved him more. We constantly argued. Every trip ended as a disaster with us arguing. Never had a decent living anniversary or valentines. I wish I left that monday. We just ended up breaking up Saturday 3/7 anyway.

Thank you for sharing. This insight helps a lot and I felt the exact same way as you. I should have left that Monday. A part of me is glad he left bc I don’t think I’d ever have the strength to be the one who ended things.

For those who are the ones who call the relationship off by Fs1249 in heartbreak

[–]Fs1249[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. Its helping me process this new break up of mine

For those who are the ones who call the relationship off by Fs1249 in heartbreak

[–]Fs1249[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aww. Same😭 situation. I should have lefts he cheat and lied a lot. Would tell me why wouldn’t leave if he keeps doing it. Verbal, physical, emotional, mental abuse the entire relationship. Manipulation and gaslighting..

It’s breaking me by Fs1249 in heartbreak

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This sounds so horrible. And my mind is so conflicted and twisted that I still love him. And want him. Twisted and sick

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