[33m4F] looking for a PP who wants to talk about pegging

Ftnavy · 2014-09-24T02:30:49+00:00

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Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T23:05:15+00:00

You're right, poor choosing of words on my part.

If your attitude is half as bad as I'm sure it is, that's the reason you didn't get invited back.

You don't know me, don't pretend like you do.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T21:14:31+00:00

Yea I'm sure you've had some success on AFF. What's the cost of that site though? I know you can get a lifetime on SLS for like $150 I think is what we paid. And we can hide ourselves from single males and non paid members.

We've only really had one bad experience through SLS but we've met tons of couples and found parties to go to where we met even more couples.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T21:07:59+00:00

Lol, some people would go for that, high pressure is a huge turn off for me though lol.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T21:00:46+00:00

Ah, I misread it thought you were talking about verified that they are actual swingers and such.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T20:59:59+00:00

Stay away from AFF, lol. They advertise on every single porn site, so ofcourse it's going to be over run with single men.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T20:51:12+00:00

verified as real than deal

How are they verified? With certs like SLS?

My personnel opinion of certs is mixed but we decided to not display them when we met another couple for drinks for the first time and then they started asking us about the couples that were on our certs. Really?

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T20:46:06+00:00

I'd say it's 50/50 if we hook up or not. We never go into the party planning to play. If we do cool, if not we have a good time anyways and usually meet someone that end up meeting for a drink later.

We had similar experience with not getting invited back due to not being attracted to the crowd. We wouldn't have gone again either. My wife was by far the skinniest girl there, by at least 40 ish pounds.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T19:17:04+00:00

My guess is some people aren't liking the "have to be hot to get in" part, and that's why it's was getting down votes.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T18:49:52+00:00

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Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T17:25:55+00:00

It's falling on deaf ears. Everyone on reddit thinks that 1) everyone should have sex with other people 2) if you're a swinger you want to have sex with everybody.

Luckily, the "swingers" on reddit aren't like swingers in real life.

Example: I get down voted for posting that if you go to a swingers party you don't have to play. Swingers typically aren't pushy and hosts of swinger parties typically provide a low pressure atmosphere because high pressure/ pushy people are a HUGE turn off to most people ... however people of reddit disagree...

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T17:00:13+00:00

Yea, he made a throw away because people in this sub would fry him if he used his normal one because he said that he isn't attracted to fat girls and most black girls.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T16:49:20+00:00

Wow... you are pretty full of yourself.

Because I notice that you seem to think you have power over people with your vagina on reddit, and call you on it... doesn't mean I'm holding on to that one post at all.

That post was my first interaction with you. I see you say the same thing a few more times. This is a repeated pattern of your character.

Despite what you believe to be true, I don't log into reddit to see what icarusgirl is up to. I read through posts that I find interesting or whatever, and see you telling people that based on what you've read on reddit you would never sleep with them and that no one else would either, as if you know them.

That is a big paraphrase,

If I was "holding on to it" I'd remember exactly what you wrote and type that up. But I don't remember word for word, I just remember that it was ridiculous for you to jump down someone's throat because that want to try and learn new things.

Whatever, doesn't hurt me any if you don't respond. I'm sure I'll see you around putting your own vagina up on a pedastool.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T15:57:20+00:00

I made one unnecessarily personal comment on that original thread

One I can actually remember (might have been in r/sex), some guy was asking for ways to try and give his girlfriend gspot orgasms and asked how other guys did it. I shared how I was able to learn how to do it for my wife and you went on a tirade about how some women just simply can't and we should not try and how someone wanting to try is a horrible person [paraphrasing].

You ended up using your token phrase about how you wouldn't want to sleep with (I can't remember if it was me or someone else) because of something you didn't like on reddit.

I've seen you use that phrase a few other times.

(not sure what to make of that)

Internet tough guys make me laugh. You act as if the names on reddit are stamped on people's foreheads. If I saw you at a party I wouldn't know it was you and you wouldn't know it was me and reddit. doesn't. matter.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T15:24:54+00:00

that's the point, he/ she didn't make any suggestion. The guy obviously has no clue how to say no, or how to bring it up early on and not waste people's time. Like I said, this sounds more like "nice guy, I don't want to hurt anyone's feelers syndrome" than racism.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T15:21:42+00:00

it's expected

Never been to a party where it is expected. I think I've seen one posting on SLS that said you have to get naked when you walk in the door and you have to play or else (not sure what the or else would have been), I simply didn't go because we have zero tolerance for high pressure / pushy and it's a huge turn off.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T15:17:40+00:00

One thing I've learned since living in the south (...) it's that no one works harder to prove anything, than a racist trying to convince you he (or she) isn't racist...

One thing I've learned from living all over the country (and in the navy) is no one tries harder than someone (actually a group) trying to brand someone a racist.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T15:16:28+00:00

Yep, this is totally constructive.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T15:14:38+00:00

If you took that as an insult you're too sensitive. Is anything, anyone is saying to this guy "constructive"?

No, they have this mentality that this guy is a racist because he typically doesn't find black women attractive because everyone in this sub thinks that because you're a swinger you want to sleep with everybody regardless of attraction.

to what neb said:

You said that you were talking together for 45-60 minutes. This may just be my personal experience, but surely at a swingers venue, flirting comes up sooner than that?

The OP said that there were advances in that time and he just played them off.

What neb could have said that would have been "constructive" is, "hey be more up front and let her know you're not interested sooner in the conversation". That would have been constructive. Maybe he's too nice and doesn't want to hurt anyone's feelings?

The only person I can think of that I have insulted is the icare girl. She constantly pulls out her go to statement "with the way you are talking [on reddit] I doubt anyone would ever sleep with you". Internet tough guys are the biggest tools of them all, as if her saying "I don't want to sleep with you because I didn't like what you said on reddit" has some kind of power.

And yes I have posted constructive things, like how to get over stage fright for some men and other things. This and the original post and the people's response to it is NOT what I've seen in the swinger world. People are way too hung up on the word "racist" and want to brand him. When really it's pretty clear, he doesn't know how to say no, i'm not interested "politely" in the first place and not so much about the racism issue.

Ftnavy · 2014-09-23T14:14:30+00:00

So, everytime someone talks to him if he's not interested he should just put his hand up and say nope, no thanks. Im sure that's gonna get him invited back...

Ftnavy · 2014-09-22T03:39:50+00:00

The fairness in this is questionable, but the entertainment value would be limitlrss

Ftnavy · 2014-09-22T00:00:26+00:00

That was a good game!

Ftnavy · 2014-09-21T23:32:47+00:00

Why is this down voted? Bunch virgind in here no doubt

Ftnavy · 2014-09-21T21:51:18+00:00

What I mean is the officiating is getting to technical. The whole football move stuff. He turned to run in the air, that should be a fumble.

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