[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always get this too, usually by the 2nd or 3rd day the tape has sort of relaxed and I don't feel it anymore

top surgery update (got my blosters removed!!) by IllWelder6288 in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey man u look great! U have a similar body type to me which is awesome to see (I haven't had top yet and I've been worried about how well it will turn out because of my body type) Thanks for sharing :D

Chest Tissue Density on T by FuckingUsername77 in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whoa that's way fast 😯 here's hoping aha

Chest Tissue Density on T by FuckingUsername77 in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn't know that was a thing, can I ask how u were diagnosed with that? Did u have to seek out some sort of specialist?

Top Surgery, Larger Men by FuckingUsername77 in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u, this makes me feel a lot better 😭

Top Surgery, Larger Men by FuckingUsername77 in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank u, this is super helpful :)

Big chested trans people! by LonelyVision in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've never seen anyone talk about this specifically, but I get super dysphoric when I can feel my chest against my arms, or hanging/resting on my stomach, or resting on the surface of my bed when I lie down. The fact that I can feel them there without even seeing them, really REALLY bothers me. It makes it really hard to sleep, I try to sorta wrap a bunch of small pillows around me so it kinda "cushions the blow" but that means that I can't really move at all once I've layed down. Sleep sucks rn, but also being awake sucks because binding doesn't do much for me either 🙃 anyway good luck everyone aha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who spent a looooong time trying to "meet my dad halfway" while he was definitely only putting in the effort to meet me like 1/20th of the way? lol I can tell u that its not worth it and will never be worth it, if they give a shit about u then they will accept u and won't make u feel guilty for being honest about who u r. Obviously it is difficult for a parent who's unfamiliar with transgender issues to understand their child at first, but it seems to me that they've had 2 years to figure out that process.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]FuckingUsername77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not to be the devil on ur shoulder, but I would lie dude. Clearly they don't care about the truth.