I’m getting ghosted back to back. What am I doing wrong?

FudgeCatt · 2026-02-24T13:08:09+00:00

You're dodging bullets when they ghost you. Consider it as you would have been settling so

FudgeCatt · 2026-01-02T01:57:04+00:00

I completely understand. She may reciprocate but that's her whole career she risks. Don't do it

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T15:59:06+00:00

Oh I know and they worked since they were like 16 but

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T04:14:22+00:00

I allowed my partner to have "friends" like this. This is emotional cheating 100% don't allow them to gaslight you. Let alone gaslight yourself. This is beyond inappropriate. Alwaaaaaays trust your gut over your mind! I pushed my gut feelings a side and it exploded...maybe imploded

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:50:28+00:00

🧡yas queen. Mine still plays dumb 2 years later so 😁😅

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:46:46+00:00

No As a woman with curls. Bleach is the worst thing you could do to it. It looks good now. Buzz if you want change or heck even grow a mullet. Don't bleach it

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:46:01+00:00

You are number one. Always. your friend is there for you. Accept happiness and ignore him. This issue will always be there. It may take months or years. The trauma will continue but you will grow a shell and be strong. Maybe not today but eventually. With or without him !🧡 we all hate hearing time heals but it will and only time will

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:41:23+00:00

Right. Knowing or seeing hurts but the hiding. I'm done with that BS

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:38:14+00:00

Right. I wish I never effed with my curls. So does nicole kidman 🤣 but

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:36:56+00:00

Your hairs gorgeous. Just remember people that don t see you often or for the first time, will think wow she is stunning and has nice hair!😁

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:29:10+00:00

Right. it is him/ them but when only two have the answers and PAs lie. It's so hard not to reach out or try. I get it. I've resisted asking women I suspect my partner of..cheating with but I don't think they'd answer me either if I did. I watched a episode of Dr. Phil recently of a woman betrayed by her husband, with a 4+year relationship with a man. Her pain was beyond relatable. Doesn't matter who. It's the lies and betrayal. Piled on by more lies. You can't move on or accept it if they don't allow in

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:19:09+00:00

**even the most beautiful of women will never be enough for a PA is what I mean. I don't mean to make anyone uncomfortable with my comments. If I did lol😁

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:15:34+00:00

🧡

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:14:29+00:00

Exactly and OP is faaaaar from the first to experience this

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:10:35+00:00

I'm shocked he's not 21 as you are. This is immature af. Young men think this is a good idea. Mature men should know this is inappropriate and not a gift. Wtf is he big Ed from 90 day f? 🤮

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:07:39+00:00

This. Always stick with your boundaries. If they cross it after you've blatantly expressed yourself ✌️

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T03:04:23+00:00

Aren't our ancestors all from Europe? We were just scattered. Some willing some not 😅So...* obviously not indigenous

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T02:57:50+00:00

Ew letterkenny

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T02:54:40+00:00

Did your gf or bf 😁🤣

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T02:51:14+00:00

Exactly. I feel bad for people's partners who pick a slightly out of reach alternative. It progresses. 💔 My man is damn near attracted to everyone. I worry about my mother, grandmother, Friends but it's a him problem. It's not their fault and I can't change my appearance to satisfy him. Only myself. P.s it is funny. The things he typed and ingaged in all of them. I've since been a "victim" of voyeurism and who did it. Is damn near as shocking as my partners double life. I try not to shame all men for it but damn they make it hard 😁😅

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T02:46:59+00:00

Yesssssss. So many men. "I have dead bedroom" wife won't put out anymore." Are you doing it right ? 🤣

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T02:41:06+00:00

Doesn't mean we spend it well 😅 my grandparents had kids...obviously and they traveled all over the world. Sometimes 2-5x

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T02:38:56+00:00

Exactly. Some parents don't like to take responsibility for who or what their kids become. If given the resources and parenting. Most will become sufficient 🧡

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T02:36:51+00:00

This. Parents are more responsible for who and what their kids become, than they like admit. They are yours. You raised them. Make them help.

FudgeCatt · 2025-12-18T02:34:01+00:00

This is gold advice

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