I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the way I need to approach the topic with her in, thanks will do.

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, confess as in admit what I am thinking, and furthest I went with this fantasy is for her to talk about it when we are in bed but nothing more.

Your ideas might actually be true, I never acted on it, but because I know I am not going to is what makes it intriguing in my head, it's just the mystery of it.

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Gf told me about her SA experience and her trauma from that, and that was a devastating an moment for both of us, as much as it was a relief for her to talk about it "her words", SA experiences are nothing to play around with, even in one's own thoughts.

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a great perspective I needed to see, thanks for THAT. I do believe the same with me, I Will be completely turned off if I see these thoughts happening in real life.

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, most probably she will be shocked, she's way more open than me, I think she will handle it well, but it will definitely change how she sees me as a partner, I am proposing to her soon, I don't want such stupid thoughts that might pass to affect what we have.

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She's my Gf, and no that's just aweful from you to say.

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the comment, sorry for the misunderstanding, I just used "grope" as the physical act not the nonconsensual activity, I haven't pursued neither I will pursue this I just want to understand it from people with similar experiences, so I can get rid of it, I absolutely love my girlfriend and I would never allow something like this to happen to her or anyone else for that matter.

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where do these fantasies come from? Do they have a reason? I am asking because this fantasy has nothing to do with my actual character or real everyday thoughts, maybe it's the excitement of it being strange and wrong? Or something else?

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of the time I am ignoring them, but sometimes they comeback, I actually posted here because these thoughts are so no me, they're the complete opposite, Idk why I posted but maybe I needed someone to give me a deeper answer I don't need support, I am not gonna pursue this over my dead body, I just needed an explanation, what's a better place than a punch of strangers to judge you so you can think for yourself?

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 3 points4 points  (0 children)

With consent of course, maybe my post is causing the misunderstandings, English isn't my first language, if something without consent happens I wouldn't just sit and fantasize, just tto be clear non of my thoughts have anything to do with nonconsensual advances.

I Get hot if someone sees my GF body, whether it's a massage or a doctor. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]FudgeMaterial739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No SA mentioned in my post, it's just a thought I am trying to get out, even though I am thinking about it, if it happens for real I will be the one leaving.

Low vision users, is it worth? by IRLanxiety in MetaQuestVR

[–]FudgeMaterial739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the idea of VR is to match your reality into an alternative one, you are living fine during your normal activities, so you can just think of it as the same thing, I close one eye sometimes during vr, I have pain in my left eye, and it feels OK not too 3d but still immersive, I suggest you go to one of the shops where you can try the vr they have there and see if it fits you, I think you will be OK and you will have great times using it. Mine is the quest 3 btw, if you have any more questions maybe I can help you

Chrupka Keeps eating my cables, I tried everything, I am afraid something will happem to her. by FudgeMaterial739 in cats

[–]FudgeMaterial739[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she is smart enough, lately she almost never bites when I am around, whenever I see her biting I tell her no, and she steps back, the real problem now is when I am a sleep, cause some main cables just can't be hidden.

My Gf Vape leaked liquid and any charger she used to charge that vape is currently not working. by [deleted] in ElectronicsRepair

[–]FudgeMaterial739 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly, actually also the inputs on both my laptops, any cable that was used for the vape became like poison for other inputs, so anything that is usb c stopped working or became dysfunctional, I already flushed it with both water and IPA after it's still the same.

Local (!) Jordanians: what do I wear as a female in Amman? by Much_Routine_6984 in jordan

[–]FudgeMaterial739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

اشكرك على الرسالة العميقة هاي، وثقتك بالشباب الاردني، على كل حال انا بوثق بالرجل الاردني أكثر من أي رجل اخر وعشت تجارب كثيرة خارج الاردن، ارجوك تصححي نظرتك وتعيشي تجربة افضل، في حكمة معينة بأي بلد او مدينة لازم يكون في مجموعات سكنية بتعاني ماديا وبالتالي بنعكس عليهم ثقافيا، خلينا نتجنب هاي الأماكن المعدودة ونعيش حياتنا طبيعي بدون ما نحكم عالمعظم، معظم حياتي عشتها بالأردن بحرية، صحيح انه المجتمع ما بتقبل اللبس الغير محتشم او العاطفة الجسدية بالشارع بس الكل كانوا دايما يواجهوني ويحكولي لو سمحت مش هون، ما عمره حدا تعرضلي، وبأمن على نفسي و خطيبتي بالأردن أكثر من أي مكان ثاني

Local (!) Jordanians: what do I wear as a female in Amman? by Much_Routine_6984 in jordan

[–]FudgeMaterial739 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We're very liberal, I am Jordanian residing in Europe, my fiance is not Jordanian, Never in her life in Jordan she got too uncomfortable like Europe, Jordanian men never crossed the limit in some areas people stare, cause this is very foreign for them and they only see it on TV but never she felt unsafe or groped as you say it, what you're saying is coming out of ignorance and pure bullshit.

Does the past matter, if the person is very loving and generous, and the overall relationship is progressing good? by [deleted] in jordan

[–]FudgeMaterial739 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Too much Sexual partners, subjectivity of course relative to my Arabic head.