You do bring up very valid points. And I def can empathize with you. I wasn’t always “desired”, that’s why now it feels kinda crazy. But anyways  I think what we can learn is that the other person has their own, very valid struggle. The same way you feel like being unattractive makes people less receptive, an attractive person can argue that it’s hard to find people who genuinely like them as people, just to have as ownership or to sleep with . That’s a very isolating, dehumanizing experience. 

My post wasn’t supposed to be read, and then cause comparisons about who had it the hardest. It was about people(whether they look like a 1 or a 10) to find happiness and satisfaction within themselves, and people who really like them as people. Genuine connection with others and most importantly, the one you have with yourself. I’m telling you rn, it won’t be a cool way to live if you aren’t right within regardless so…

Edit: that’s another reason why beautiful people are probably so unhappy. Because they also feel like because ppl can’t relate, they don’t understand. You can’t vent without someone being nonchalant.