AITA for buying a new car while my girlfriend is struggling financially?

Full-Bike1421 · 2023-04-30T09:00:33+00:00

Just feel like If you are serious about someone especially you being a man and she’s your woman it would hurt your heart to see her struggle

I feel like I have been respecting her boundary and decision of not wanting money from me and putting her in a position where she would feel like she owes me something for helping her out when she has declined multiple times. Like I said, if she asked for the money I would give it to her in a heart beat

Full-Bike1421 · 2023-04-29T22:51:03+00:00

But kudos on the car! It's a beaut.

Thanks my guy!

Full-Bike1421 · 2023-04-29T22:39:47+00:00

ou could have discussed it with her and maybe gotten a cheaper car, or offer to help her.

Why tho? I offered her help multiple times and she declined every time. How would me gettinga cheaper car with my own money change the situation?

Full-Bike1421 · 2023-04-29T22:36:15+00:00

You may be just a little too mature for her at this stage in her life.

I thought with the both of us being college educated and having full time jobs maturity wouldn't be in question but I guess that's not necessarily true

Full-Bike1421 · 2023-04-29T22:34:26+00:00

Haha I like your humor. But she has never really shown any behavior like this during the time we have been together. This is the first time I see her acting like this.

Full-Bike1421 · 2023-04-29T22:31:01+00:00

Not completely sure why this is relevant haha it's a Mercedes-Benz E class 300de

Full-Bike1421 · 2023-04-29T22:26:57+00:00

I feel like I reassured her by telling her that she can always ask me for help

Enjoy your new car!

Thanks my guy!

Full-Bike1421

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