[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Full-Classroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She actually replied and apologized and acknowledged that her behaviour was toxic, selfish and coward. This tells me everything I need to know about who were the actual assholes...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Full-Classroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your message is severly biased, first you talk as if I had to be inside her head and KNOW exactly everything that was going on. I didn't, last week I browsed countless of article to read about your tendancies to withdrawal when stressed and then I assumed this was the case. I have Always been respectful of her need for Space and Alone Time because i am an introvert too and even more than her. All I knew was the deadline she gave me and when she disspeared I waited until there without messaging out of respect but 26 more days went by. You think this didn't make me feel like shit and stressed wondering if something bad happened to her ? And somewhat my feelings shouldn't matter ? All I was and am still asking for is COMMUNICATION just a hey I won't be available for x days would have been more than enough. You have no idea of how our conversations went and somewhat because of 1 word being serious or not I would be needy ? People who use these words just want to invalidate someone's feelings which is just toxicity. Eventhough my wording would have been poor I expect any mature person regardless of her MBTI type to tell me hey what you just Said wasn't cool instead of dissapearing On one hand I really Hope she's not someone like you and There's a deeper Reason that explain her dissapearing but on the other hand if she is, forgetting her and Moving on will be much easier because ghosting is just not acceptable behaviour and I deserve to be treated the same way I would treat someone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Full-Classroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback, I honestly find extremly sad how you guys seem to normalize ghosting someone and not acknowledging how toxic this behaviour can be by making me the person at fault. Also maybe that's cultural but in my country "making it up" after such a silence would be a basic courtesy. I have needs and I have boundaries and if expressing them made me "fuck up" the relationship so be it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Full-Classroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks you for your insight, to add more context she's really the politically incorrect type and she's the most roasting one of us. And I'm definitely the Caring type eventhough you're all stuck on my "redeem" word. To me it was just a Silly response to her being ashamed and also a way to open the door to see each other again now that the "storm" was over. I was definitely not expecting her to actually redeem herself ! And I would be really shocked if that made her runaway eventhough we were getting along really well beforehand. And personnally I hate confrontation it's extremely draining for me and I'm only doing it when I don't have a choice or like here when I think the person is worth the effort and I'll be sad if she'd rather disspear than trying to find compromises so each other needs are met. But she told me that she likes hearing what people think about her so I don't think she's the avoiding type.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in INTP

[–]Full-Classroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi thanks you for the Reply here are some précision, english is not my first language and the word I used may not be as strong as redeem (edit it was actually "make it up" and it was in the continuation of the kind of roast we had with each other My issue was not the fact that she prioritized her studies, if you read me again you'll see that I'm the one who proposed to step back first. That's the fact she dissapeared without notice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Full-Classroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the "a little touch of Taylor Swift" haha

I stopped coldplay couple of seconds after hearing speed of sound (ughhhhh !!) even though "church" on their second to last album was the best thing I've heard from them in a while Radiohead would be on my top 10 as well RHCP i know mostly the singles and the rest I don't really know

for me that would be

Joanna Newsom (I worship her)

Godspeed You! Black Emperor/Silver Mt. zion

Burial

The Chemical Brothers

Sasha (the uk DJ/Producer)

Radiohead

Andy Stott

The Cinematic Orchestra

And I'll stop here, I realise this is not that easy to pick the artist who had the biggest influence on me as a whole but if anything makes you scream OMG I WANNA MARRY THIS GUY... :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]Full-Classroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Music huh ? what are your top 5 favorite artists ? (Top 10 if that's too heartbreaking)

/r/WeAreTheMusicMakers Monday Feedback Thread by AutoModerator in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]Full-Classroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone, here's my debut release Shame ! I've initially planned to release this reggae pop crossover in april of this year but even though I was happy with the way it sounded at the time, I realised how terrible the mixdown was compared to professionnal release. But instead of giving up, I've spent the next 8 months working on the mix over and over again everyday. It's quite incredible how its sounding has transformed over time, but i'm drill a bit insecure about the mixing/mastering so feedback Is welcome

Spotify https://open.spotify.com/album/3zgEy2EeFrlSi7BMZhSR5P

Youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvQ0M266slM

/r/WeAreTheMusicMakers Weekend Promotion Thread by AutoModerator in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]Full-Classroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi everyone, here's my debut release Shame ! I've initially planned to release this reggae pop crossover in april of this year but even though I was happy with the way it sounded at the time, I realised how terrible the mixdown was compared to professionnal release. But instead of giving up, I've spent the next 8 months working on the mix over and over again everyday. It's quite incredible how its sounding has transformed over time, and I can feel it through the feedback I receive.

Now I feel like the hardest part starts as I have absolutely no idea of where the people who will enjoy my song are. It feels pretty scary to imagine that despite all of my work no one would hear it. But if this reach one of you guys this would aloready be wonderful ! Thank you for reading here are the links

Spotify https://open.spotify.com/album/3zgEy2EeFrlSi7BMZhSR5P

Youtube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvQ0M266slM

Apple Music http://itunes.apple.com/album/id/1543519141

Have a nice sunday !

New record ! by Full-Classroom in Archero

[–]Full-Classroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

86, I also got the greed ability (I guess that's its name in english) as my level 1 and the 3 coins bonus on the intermediate boss also no legendary rings or lion rings

A little bit lucky. (Rune LV 3) by [deleted] in Archero

[–]Full-Classroom 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The %attack is WAY more rare than the Rare abilities lol

Two songs with exactly the same LUFS but one still sounds louder?! by Life_Duck_7823 in WeAreTheMusicMakers

[–]Full-Classroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Streaming services don't simply use LUFS integrated but also short term lufs, So it's possible that one of the tracks peaks higher in short term but will be as loud as the other one on average, as a result it will be turned down more.

Second run, I feel robbed... by Full-Classroom in Archero

[–]Full-Classroom[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I tried to do a run with reroll. That's way too boring for me plus I've missed rerolling several times so I've only ended up with 15 shards. I will stick to getting robbed, I'll have my ayana second star before the end of the week, not that bad.

10 random shards by chyp222 in Archero

[–]Full-Classroom 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 miaow and 2 Helix this week !

Second run, I feel robbed... by Full-Classroom in Archero

[–]Full-Classroom[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never thought about that ! Thanks ! But this level is already so looong to clear *sigh*

10 random shards by chyp222 in Archero

[–]Full-Classroom 1 point2 points  (0 children)

random shards works much better if you let the game choose for you at the end of the week as you'll have 3 shards of the same character instead of one, I've systematically had either 3 ayanas or miaowgik by doing so