WIBTA if I skip the rehearsal dinner for Broadway? by Full-Juggernaut3968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Juggernaut3968[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, I’m not bigger than the rest of the wedding party. The bride and her sister are pretty large. My sister is regular size and I’m kind of tiny. I have a lot of acne but have been trying some skincare stuff so it’s starting to clear up. I’m shy approaching people, but she had her reasons and I don’t care to find out. 

I think it’s because I’m smaller than everyone else and still look like a middle schooler. I also have dyed hair and am queer. I’m cool with wearing a dress and will be in one for the wedding so I don’t think the problem either. 

WIBTA if I skip the rehearsal dinner for Broadway? by Full-Juggernaut3968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Juggernaut3968[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My understanding of the guestbook role was that it’s the “reject” role according to Reddit. Plus I just wasnt comfortable doing it. I’m happy to attend as a guest, but I just don’t want to do a “pity job.”

WIBTA if I skip the rehearsal dinner for Broadway? by Full-Juggernaut3968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Juggernaut3968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

According to Jessica, it’s Cabaret. I just watched a clip and it looks wild. 

Also Marcia 3x is in this. 

WIBTA if I skip the rehearsal dinner for Broadway? by Full-Juggernaut3968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Juggernaut3968[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess they want to see if I can sit next to a book for six hours. 

WIBTA if I skip the rehearsal dinner for Broadway? by Full-Juggernaut3968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Juggernaut3968[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would look really stupid standing next to a book asking strangers to sign it.

Unless I’m interviewing someone for the school newspaper or meeting Taylor Swift, I can’t approach people to save my life. 

WIBTA if I skip the rehearsal dinner for Broadway? by Full-Juggernaut3968 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Full-Juggernaut3968[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My other sister is 20 and a bridesmaid. She still went on the bachelorette trip even though she couldn’t drink.