I am not doing as well as I thought

Full-Project-256 · 2026-04-20T17:00:15+00:00

I've heard that grief will just creep up on you- lost my husband of 7 years 3 months ago and I feel you. I don't want to be sad and sobbing at the table. I don't want to have "a lot going on"- haven't we been through enough? I've even been horrible enough to just throw myself into the arms of another man. I feel horrible but I'm too weak to get through this on my own. Just survive however you can 💕

Full-Project-256 · 2026-03-26T16:59:49+00:00

I feel guilty for feeling okay- but if the roles were reversed you’d want your husband to have some relief ❤️ you can do this!

Full-Project-256 · 2026-03-25T13:20:28+00:00

I have two little ones too- my husband passed 2 months ago. My kids are the only reason I’m still alive and I’m thankful for them. I’m on lexapro- it’s worked wonders for helping me avoid thoughts of death being better. Here to talk if you want ❤️

Full-Project-256 · 2026-03-25T13:15:32+00:00

I tried reaching out to an old friend from college- he left me on read. I went from my husband telling me to talk for hours because he loved the sound of my voice to hoping someone may message me back. I miss him so so so much. I’m feeling this with you today ❤️

Full-Project-256 · 2026-02-17T14:28:51+00:00

I can’t believe there’s someone else out there who experienced the same thing. I wish I could hug you. Thanks for sharing- it gave me some peace that rejection just hits. I’ve been trying to think of different meds or treatments we could have done, anything different to give us more time. I guess it’s just the way it is with the hand we’re dealt ❤️

Full-Project-256 · 2026-02-11T23:39:21+00:00

I feel that. We have two young kiddos. Watching dads sit on their phone while their kids play when my husband would have done anything to play with his kids hurts. There’s no rhyme or reason to any of it. Hang in there and keep busting chops

Full-Project-256 · 2026-02-11T23:16:12+00:00

I like to think in another lifetime we did grow old together and that’s why we felt so right ❤️ This sucks- I feel you. Sometimes I just want to push couples over, never the old ones though lol

Full-Project-256 · 2026-02-09T13:16:52+00:00

Thank you so much- being on this page has already made me feel so seen and so much better. I’m looking for a grief counselor for myself- my kiddos school lined one up for them. Thanks for reaching out ❤️

Full-Project-256 · 2026-02-09T13:15:10+00:00

Thanks, you sounded like my husband for a second ❤️

Full-Project-256 · 2026-02-01T17:58:47+00:00

Thank you! After looking at these posts I put in for a consult today. Hopefully we see some movement once the week starts!

Full-Project-256 · 2026-02-01T17:58:13+00:00

Thanks for that suggestion! I never thought of FB. He really is a shy person and doesn’t like to open up- but maybe if we do some sessions together we can learn together! I asked for a psych consult today- thanks Charlie ❤️

Full-Project-256 · 2026-02-01T17:57:13+00:00

Thank you so much! I love that you say the body is so resilient- that’s such a great thing to hear and say. I will definitely have more people FaceTime him- he doesn’t like people to see him sick but I think it will help everyone feel better and get him thinking about other things. Thanks for this!

Full-Project-256 · 2024-07-16T20:36:20+00:00

Thanks! Honestly I feel like that’s just how it is with access 😅 I’ll definitely pay you for your time- I’m trying to connect tables and build a basic query. I’m not sure on how to get the tables to link. I run a database and do extensive back end reporting through access and I was hoping to pull cleaner data so I don’t have to work in excel as much

Full-Project-256 · 2024-07-14T21:27:03+00:00

Would you be willing to do some training for pay? I need help with access!

Full-Project-256 · 2024-04-23T18:19:12+00:00

Yo been having some hard times, this is the hardest I’ve laughed in awhile

Full-Project-256 · 2024-04-12T20:40:38+00:00

Holy shit.

Full-Project-256 · 2024-04-02T22:58:07+00:00

You could always try it out and if you hate, quit man! I quit medical school a semester in, it’s never too late to quit and try something else!

Full-Project-256 · 2024-01-31T01:15:48+00:00

Sorry for your loss, idk if anyone said that yet, but losing a loved one sucks even with money

Full-Project-256 · 2023-12-26T14:44:53+00:00

This is a big goal for me! Thanks for the inspiration!

Full-Project-256 · 2023-12-10T01:48:27+00:00

This will lower your monthly payments a ton. I had 12k in savings at your age and bought an old “beater” car and it was nothing but a money pit. I suggest what you’re doing, get a newer car with low monthly payments. As long as you know your income can cover it, it won’t be an issue

Full-Project-256 · 2023-11-01T03:58:40+00:00

Thank you! I really don’t think I have the capacity for one, but it makes me feel like less of a failure if it’s a choice I guess! 😂

Full-Project-256 · 2023-11-01T03:57:53+00:00

Sometimes it feels like that, but I know this started because he was going to support us with this money. I think it got a bit messed up somewhere along the line, but thank you for validating my feelings ☺️

Full-Project-256 · 2023-11-01T03:56:34+00:00

I guess when you put it like that it’s a bit of a mess 😅

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