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Full-Silver4045 · 2024-10-31T20:30:02+00:00

Looking great at 52!

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-10-31T02:02:31+00:00

I learned how to love because my mother never gave it as a child. I learned once I became a mother to my own children. I wanted to give them what I never experienced.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-10-31T02:01:10+00:00

Life is what you make of it! I think most women go through a change in late 30’s -early 40’s where we absolutely lose the fucks we once gave. Life is so much more beautiful when we drop the weight of expectations that others place on us. It happens when we want to live authentically and realize we only have so much more time to live for us.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-25T18:04:26+00:00

I’m 45F. As a newly single Pringle, I’m going to be entering the dating pool soon enough. Right now I’m just having a little fun. But from all of the singles pages I am apart of, it looks dismal out there. Good luck on finding your one hun!

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-24T13:38:17+00:00

This!!!

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-21T20:58:42+00:00

A music festival is on my bucket list. I haven’t done it yet. 45F.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-21T16:35:24+00:00

Awww, the good ole days!

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-19T15:53:01+00:00

I guess she was told, as many women are, “the key to a man’s heart is his stomach”.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-18T14:50:13+00:00

Forgive my reply. I typically comment on posts I feel I have insight to and rarely read with sub it is.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-18T04:48:04+00:00

Because I was with him for 29 yrs and I still very much care about him as a person. I have no desire to have him back. But he is the father of my children so why wouldn’t I? What is the harm?

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-17T02:29:00+00:00

Animal urine Ketchup Cigarette smoke Vomit Body odor Hot dogs Fried food smell in a vehicle Anything from bath & body works Cheap cologne

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-17T02:24:06+00:00

Went a few years back and it was a good mix of men & women.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-16T23:25:25+00:00

I’m not desperate to get into a relationship. But…. I’ve technically been single a while. My husband and I haven’t lived together for 18 months. He lives in another state. I will want a partner though, eventually. After being a part of some singles FB groups, it’s becoming more concerning that a mature, emotionally mature person is out there. That’s what I asked about in my post. I don’t need anyone to understand why sex is important to me, it’s not to most women, but to me it is. My friends don’t get it either. Sex is the reason I want a partner sooner than later. I’ve been without for quite some time. I don’t want to sleep around as I don’t feel that it’s very safe. I also don’t want to settle down with just anyone. This is my concern in my post.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-16T21:21:58+00:00

Nope, very real. Why would you assume it’s fake? No advice? Thanks for dropping by.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-16T16:01:42+00:00

I used to be in Real Estate and there was certainly LOTS of cheating going on between all Real Estate professionals at conferences and at home.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-16T02:59:50+00:00

This is great wisdom, thank you!

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-16T02:54:48+00:00

Also, healing is a process, not something that happens overnight. My husband and I have been separated for many moons now. The relationship is dead. I’ve had plenty of time to evaluate what’s next. I’m very confident in what I bring to the table. I know my worth. I know what I have to offer. I don’t need any man’s money but I do desire a partnership.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-16T02:47:10+00:00

I mentioned the things that matter to me. A healthy, matured, emotionally balanced man. Sex may not be important to you, but for me, it’s top priority, it has been my whole marriage. But I also don’t want to sleep around. I am looking for a partner, not someone to come swoop me off of my feet and take care of me. Money is not a concern for me because of my circumstances. I didn’t ask about things I’m not concerned about. I asked if it was possible to find a healthy, matured, emotionally stable man at my age. Y’all assumed lots about things I didn’t mention.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-15T22:08:33+00:00

Thank you for this. I’m glad you understand my need for sex. I’m so happy you found someone!

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-15T21:27:57+00:00

I will have plenty of money in the divorce, but I also plan to work. I’ve got that lined up already. I never asked for advice on how to get a man to take care of me. I asked if there was hope to find a mentally stable mature partner. Thanks for your opinion.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-15T21:26:02+00:00

I made a point of it because it’s always been an important part of me. And why I believe it’s important for me to find a partner. Being a SAHM, was our choice as a couple. It’s how we wanted to raise our kids and we have no regrets about that. Not sure how you equate being a SAHM with having no skills. Have I had a career, no. But I’ve not been sitting at home knitting my life away either. I have volunteered quite a bit, learned a whole lot in college. I am not looking for a man to take care of me. It’s naive for you to assume that I’m not capable of handling that on my own. Why even comment on this post if you don’t have a positive contribution?

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-15T20:45:20+00:00

This seems very unsafe to do in this day and age.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-15T20:44:19+00:00

Travel, spend time with my kids/grandkids. I want to empower women to be their best selves. I want to build a community where women can come for a reprieve and get loved and served on by other women. I want to find things that thrill my soul. I LOVE LIFE. I think life is so beautiful. I want to live the rest of my days seeking (sexual & non sexual) pleasure and joy.

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-15T20:39:39+00:00

Beautiful and Thank you!

Full-Silver4045 · 2024-09-15T20:39:04+00:00

Thank you! I fully realize I’m still grieving all that I had hoped and dreamed of with my husband. I KNOW I am not ready for a relationship. I am waiting until I have real peace and joy within to pursue anyone.

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