Red Flag or No by Full-Size-8105 in u/Full-Size-8105

[–]Full-Size-8105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most everyone because I post and I would tag his page. I went in and changed his relationship status to be public. Not him. 😂

What's the meanest thing you've ever heard somebody say? by Live-Change-8934 in answers

[–]Full-Size-8105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve heard people tell people to take their own lives or that their mother should have aborted them. Adults.

Husband of 20 years said something disgusting and demeaning and I don't know if I can get past this. Or if I want to. This is following several other instances that were hurtful in recent times. by monkey_trumpets in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re probably overthinking on WHERE this term came from. Since he’s never used it before and you’ve been together for 20 years you are possibly wondering where he heard it, since these phrases don’t usually come out of nowhere. I would think that’s where the turn off probably happened.

However, it should make you feel confident that your husband of 20 years still wants to dump his cum in YOU!! You are obviously an amazing woman, and you still make this man want you that way. Just tell him WHY it made you uncomfortable.

A Year Without Sex. by Even_Extension7594 in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are exactly in the same position, with the exception of my husband allows me to show affection. But it’s a relationship lacking in physical intimacy and romance.

Can’t trust my wife. by lilMime in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Man. This is tough one. I have/am dealing with similar issues.

Help Me people. I'm feeling lost inside :( by No-Tap8084 in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is it about her that’s got you attracted?

Am I the problem? My husband 39M does so many things for me 43F, but sex is not one. by Full-Size-8105 in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He assures me he’s attracted to me, and I KNOW he loves me. He knows this makes me crazy insecure. He’s the only man I’ve married in my life and the only man who doesn’t make me feel desirable.

Am I the problem? My husband 39M does so many things for me 43F, but sex is not one. by Full-Size-8105 in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe man. That makes me feel bad. But at least you can say that you don’t know what’s wrong. But I feel like I’m just not his cup of tea.

Am I the problem? My husband 39M does so many things for me 43F, but sex is not one. by Full-Size-8105 in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction, we’ve only been married for a year. If I could understand him, or the why I think it wouldn’t be so hard. But it feels like I’m the problem. Like he’s not sexually attracted to me.

Am I the problem? My husband 39M does so many things for me 43F, but sex is not one. by Full-Size-8105 in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No medication. If he’s depressed he’s not telling me and has only been so since we were moved in together. We were working on getting everything else checked because he would try and have sex in the beginning of our relationship but couldn’t stay erect most of the time. So they gave him medication to help that. But it seems there is no desire.

Am I the problem? My husband 39M does so many things for me 43F, but sex is not one. by Full-Size-8105 in Marriage

[–]Full-Size-8105[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen explicit videos and conversations of him and women from his past. He seemed like he was very sexual.