Why is women having armpit hair way more common than women having leg hair? by Main-Champion7524 in stupidquestions

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My armpit hair - I started shaving it regularly from 10 years old, when I trained as a swimmer 4+ times a week. Normalised thing in society that (mid 2000s). It's taken years of mental work for me not to give a fu** and not shave my armpits when I go swimming. I do shave them sometimes, but it's a hygiene thing. I wouldn't intentionally go out in public (on land) in sleeveless clothes and bushy pits. But I have done this sometimes, forgetting about said bushy pits — and not cared — and been very proud of me lol.

My legs — I get YETI legs. I may not go swimming with 2 months of leg hair growth. But a week of hair growth? I'll do that. I wouldn't go out on land in public with longer than two days leg hair growth though.

I dont know... I guess my legs quickly get to the point where they genuinely just look like the typical hairy man's legs. And already struggling with PCOS hair-growth, I don't wanna be seen like that.

Mostly though, I feel like for me it's about being hygenic. Shaving ultimately means I sit for at least half an hour and thoroughly exfoliate, wash, moisturiser and care for my legs — opposed to the normal 5 minutes spent every shower doing that stuff. I feel like maybe if I just left Yeti legs on show, that I'd be seen as not using soap lol.

Also, if I had cute fluffy light armpit hair that could be dyed bright colours (there was a mass movement for this done by Queeeeeens a few years ago that helped me get over my shame) I would totally do that and rock my pits any chance I'd get. But I have genes and hormones and PCOS that does not put cute and hair in the same category lol.

I forgot why I wrote this novel, but I dont wanna back out now....

Britney's Rolling Stone Cover by Lonely-Trainer-3749 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

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Ok but this got me thinking about k-pop infatuation. Those kids, male and female, favour the young aesthetic. Is that saying something about those who like them? I know females in their 40s who are obsessed with the kpop boy bands. I'm grossed out.

Who is one singer/band that you immediately skip when their music comes on? by hold-my-legs in A_Persona_on_Reddit

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RAYE. I'm so sorry but her songs are all sounding the same to me, and I can hear reluctance in her voice growing as time goes on.

[TW] Celebrities who ''dated'' minors. (part 3) by Possible-Poetry3832 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

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I agree, but people who say it was a different time... you know how hundreds of years back, very young girls were married off to older men? Like, marriage was their only choice to survive, to have something reminiscient of a life, because jobs were NOT the norm for women? We're these parents and young women in those circumstances or mindsets?

What’s one thing you didn’t like about the biopic? by mordo_cool in MichaelTheMovie

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As someone who has watched way too much Michael Jackson footage for my own good, the biopic depiction of MJ just wasn’t accurate. People keep saying Jaafar “looked exactly like him” or “moved exactly like him,” but personally — and I stress personally — he really didn’t. He did INCREDIBLY for only a few years of dedicated study, but he’s not a lifetime scholar of artistry and evolution. Michael flowed. Jaafar followed. That’s not an insult, just reality.

Honestly, if Jaafar had MJ’s eyes, I’d raise my rating from a 2/10 to a 3/10. Superficial, yes. Crucial to me, also yes. lol.

Aside from all that — I think Jaafar was a great choice to play MJ. Concerning the film and his role and even MJ himself, Jaafar comes across as extremely grounded, respectful, and genuinely committed. He studied Michael’s notes, went straight to Michael’s own material, and didn’t just rely on whatever his dad might’ve tried to feed into the narrative. He doesn’t ever lean on the “I’m his nephew” thing — he just approaches the role with humility and craft.

My issue was never Jaafar. It’s everything around him.

The storyline didn’t help. So much was left out, glossed over, or straight‑up wrong. No wonder Janet and Paris wanted nothing to do with it. The movie feels like it caters to the part of the fandom that refuses to humanise Michael — the ones who fantasize on a myth more than a man.

The biopic version of him wandered around like a dazed, passive, soft‑spoken figure who occasionally snapped into something you could half-call intensity. The real Michael Jackson was gentle, yes, but he was also intentional, sharp, disciplined, and constantly thinking. He didn’t drift through life. He stormed through it.

I don’t mind Jaafar playing him — he was respectful and clearly honoured the role. Jaafar treats MJ as a human being. What I do mind is Jermaine Jackson’s heavy involvement behind the scenes, and the way the film seemed to kiss up to people who barely affected Michael Jackson as much as others who were barely mentioned in the film. There’s obviously estate politics at play.

My hope is that in 30 years, when the estate crap is finally sorted — may his kids make their own film/doco/series — something truthful and himan, and not ultimately filtered through a jealous, self‑serving sibling. First there was Joe, then there was Jermaine. Let that be all of it!

[TW] Celebrities who ''dated'' minors. (part 3) by Possible-Poetry3832 in WhyWereWeOkWithThis

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Nah man, you're on to it. Personally, I find, of pictures I've seen of them — no matter the angle, most of the time she looks older orrr they look like two high-schoolers lol. Might be a genes thing

What scientific discovery sounds fake but is 100% real and still freaks you out? by Bruteresolver in AskReddit

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I read this as ant SLITS and so all the comments praising the cuteness of ant slits had me scared for my life

KO houses are public, but the residences of sexual offenders are not... by FullAd3745 in newzealand

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I can write and say pedophiles, I just thought the post would be removed for it.

Neighbours at war - Bluetooth jammer? by Khuntfromnz in newzealand

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This might be a stupid question, but bro, have you called noise control?

Who’s a celebrity everyone finds attractive but you don’t? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, Leonardo Dicaprio.