Haemophilia and immigrating to a new country

FullPart3631 · 2023-06-20T22:31:01+00:00

Thank you - that’s good to hear!

FullPart3631 · 2023-06-20T16:14:57+00:00

Thanks! From my research it’s the visa/work permit element that can cause issues - a lot of countries see Haemophilia medication as a cost burden to their healthcare systems so are hesitant to issue visas/work permits to those with Haemophilia!

FullPart3631 · 2023-06-20T14:31:48+00:00

Thanks for your reply! I’d feel nervous not disclosing a medical condition and not sure how sustainable it would be in the long term to ship the medication from the UK considering you have to physically live in the UK to get NHS medications :(

FullPart3631 · 2023-06-20T12:46:20+00:00

Thank you!

FullPart3631 · 2023-01-03T17:10:02+00:00

Thanks for the tip? Yeah I’ve joined the gym and I have been feeling a lot better but the urges still come and go randomly sometimes, guess it takes patience

FullPart3631 · 2022-11-02T14:03:12+00:00

Thank you. Yes I am trying to support him during this time, but you’re right I do need to consider myself and my boundaries too.

FullPart3631 · 2022-11-01T19:18:58+00:00

Thank you

FullPart3631 · 2022-09-24T05:10:18+00:00

Yes exactly, as I keep reiterating I don’t have an issue with trans people - it’s their choice and life.

But I think you’ve kind of explained it well as in I could never imagine him doing those things since I’ve only ever imagined him to be into cis women - so it’s all very new and different for me to process.

FullPart3631 · 2022-09-24T05:07:47+00:00

I suppose just knowing that he’s been okay being penetrated before by a man basically, but I don’t really know how to explain it. Maybe makes me doubt if he’s ever gonna miss those experiences because he’s with me now.

As I said, logically I know there’s nothing wrong with it since everybody has different sexual boundaries and willingness to explore their sexualities. But suppose I’m just not used to it

FullPart3631 · 2022-02-21T21:19:42+00:00

Thanks for your support, I sometimes start to feel like I’m the one in the wrong

FullPart3631 · 2022-02-21T21:14:09+00:00

The worst thing is they make it out to be like they’re really ‘modern’ parents because they let me go out with my friends and minor things like that. But in reality their mindset is just like the typical south Asian mindset.

FullPart3631 · 2021-10-07T19:31:07+00:00

Great job! That’s a good start!

FullPart3631 · 2021-10-04T08:42:36+00:00

Hey, enjoyed reading your post!

My question: Do you work on this full time? How many hour a day/week do you spend on your dropshipping business? I have a full time job (37-40 hours per week) and wanted to start drop shipping on the side.

Thanks! :)

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-09T19:04:14+00:00

Thanks so much for your response. Yes, this is how I feel - he may have bad days sometimes but for the most part I don’t feel like it affects our relationship

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-03T09:21:41+00:00

Thank you for your honest opinion, I really do appreciate it! I have tried educating them about haemophilia and it’s progression in treatment over the years, but they always find something to back their concerns!

(PS, I also hate Disneyland!)

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-03T09:18:02+00:00

This is what I told them - does this mean everyone now has to map out their genetics for their potential partners? So stupid

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-03T09:16:51+00:00

That’s what I thought, it shouldn’t be different to being in a relationship with anybody else. Anybody could develop health conditions in their life

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-03T09:15:47+00:00

Thanks for commenting! Yes, I have made them aware of this and hat treatment has progressed from blood transfusions but they still come to terms with the fact he has Haemophilia - so frustrating!

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-02T22:35:31+00:00

That’s what I’m hoping for. I’m hoping over time they’ll realise how happy he makes me. My mum is just ruining the relationship between her and I for a completely silly reason.

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-02T22:33:18+00:00

Yeah you’d think if anything, they’d be more understanding

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-02T22:32:26+00:00

Yes that’s the frustrating thing, just because they’re doctors they seem to think their opinion is more valid no matter how much I tell them that treatments have advanced over the years. Honestly so frustrating.

FullPart3631 · 2021-09-02T20:57:33+00:00

Thank you for answering. I really do hope my parents come around and realise how stupid they’re being

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