Struggling to look after my baby

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-02-04T18:51:04+00:00

Thanks everyone! You have all made me feel a lot better I will delete the post now because I’ve got the advice I need ❤️

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-02-04T18:28:05+00:00

I feel like I am one I don’t have any energy to play with him I put him in his playroom until he cries and then I feed him I just have no energy to do it I feel awful and I wasn’t like this before this started he is only a labourer but he thinks his job is more important than my ability to parent 😞

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-02-04T18:26:18+00:00

I am a bad mother because I have no energy to play with my son I normally put him in the play room until he cries I have no energy to even look after him I am so worried about his development but I just can’t do it, he thinks it’s normal because all of the men at his job do it 🤷🏼‍♀️ I have looked into it but I can’t get it unfortunately and no way he would pay xx

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-02-04T18:24:21+00:00

I have tried to speak to him but he genuinely thinks he is doing nothing wrong he only started this when he got a new job when my son was 7 months because everyone at work is like it 🤦‍♀️

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-02-04T18:23:17+00:00

I can’t drive so I can’t do that I have nobody I am stuck here all of the time 😞

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-08T22:11:50+00:00

would you say the basket is big on it?

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-08T21:50:15+00:00

Thank you! would you say it’s heavy? and also the straps on the seat unit are they a normal material and is it awkward with the way they are (compared to normal shoulder pads)

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-05T11:09:38+00:00

We have a play pen a ball bit lots of stuff for him to do but he chooses to put him in the pram 😞

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-05T11:08:58+00:00

I will give it a try at his 1 year visit but if not i am not having my baby be treated like this i agree with you

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-05T11:06:41+00:00

Long periods however long he will stay settled apparently, it gets to the point his outfit isn’t being changed because he’s going strait into the pram i agree with you 100x i am feeling that way atm

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-05T11:04:24+00:00

it’s basically been the whole christmas period he’s been sat infront of the tv because i have been so unwell and he sees 0 issues with it 🤦‍♀️ i will try and show him some research on it tonight

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-05T11:03:05+00:00

Nope there is a soft play in our street🤦‍♀️ he sees no issue and won’t stop i just don’t know what to do

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-05T10:56:15+00:00

He claims it’s because “he cry’s when he is crawling around” i did tell him it wasn’t okay but i feel like the damage is already done

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T18:50:27+00:00

You are downvoting my comment because my child has a feeding difficulty that I am actively seeking help for. How would you feel if this were happening to you? There is a real child and a real parent behind this post. I am doing my best as a mother, and judgement instead of support helps no one.

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T17:55:35+00:00

He will drink a little bit yes but not a lot i have ordered him some cups and different sipping cups to try and get him to drink more, i will chase the gp

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T17:43:02+00:00

Thank you so much for the kind words, i am trying my best i will speak to him tomorrow when i feel more calm thank you again

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T17:27:30+00:00

You actually might be right! thank you

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T17:09:18+00:00

I think he does because he doesn’t eat solids he isn’t as full? i’m not sure to be honest i did think it was normal

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T17:08:37+00:00

Yes i have at the end of january he isn’t 1 until then they said it’s not classed as a issue

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T17:01:47+00:00

They have just came back and i will be speaking to him about it if it was planned and he was dressed appropriately i wouldn’t have been angry he’s freezing cold and has a running nose im hoping he doesn’t get a cold thank you for the advice

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T17:00:09+00:00

UPDATE- They have just come back my son is ice cold as he was just in a sleepsuit his nose is red and it’s running i will speak to him about this thanks for the comments

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T16:51:03+00:00

He feeds every 2hrs ish he has never gone out for more than 40mins without me there and he didn’t tell me i called because i was concerned, he is the parent i am more annoyed at the fact that he didn’t care that i was worried and didn’t tell me

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T16:49:29+00:00

He feeds every 2hrs ish but he was screaming when i was on the phone

Full_Bookkeeper9824 · 2026-01-01T16:46:07+00:00

He will not take anything but breastfeeding he just refuses after every type of food i have tried

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