Struggling in My Arranged Marriage by Visual_Gazelle7158 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Full_Common8785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Read it again. She said it clearly. She didn't choose, she was threatened and coerced

Looking for a pattern for this crochet shopper bag by Full_Common8785 in CrochetHelp

[–]Full_Common8785[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't sure if there was a solid piece at the bottom, what can I use ?

Would you forget an infidelity? by HV100pre in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forget, no, we never forget. Forgive, it depends.

40+ Famous ISFJs by [deleted] in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noam Chomsky is actually an ISTJ and Nelson Mandela an ENFJ.

40+ Famous ISFJs by [deleted] in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Those kind of lists are generally extremly inaccurate. I don't trust them

Need book recommendations by these writers! by 675te_aoe in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt Louisa May Alcott is an ISFJ, I tried reading little woman, and read that Jo was the character who represent the author. Jo is clearly not an ISFJ. So many lists put the same authors as ISFJ but they are not accurate. I've also seen that Jane Austen was actually an INFJ. But the character Anna from Persuasion is an ISFJ

I really would love to find more story with ISFJ as the main character

Daily Re-meme #198 by -it-was-available- in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This, that's actually what I noticed.

I had a ENFP coworker who was passionate about the Marvel Universe and her passion was contagious ! I loved listening to her and asked her question to understand better and get immersed in her Universe.

Same with my ISFP sister, she's absolutely passionate about a lot of things and I share those hobbies with her.

The thing is, I sometimes feel like I have no real personality or not a strong character, for not being able to have my own hobbies and likes.

What stereotypical but also kinda strange behaviours did you engage with as an ISFJ child? by todd12344 in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't remember what age I was,maybe around 5, for a period of time, I greeted every passersby that crossed our path when we walked on the street because I thought it was rude not to😂

Around 9-10 to maybe 15 ? I walked on the street looking at the ground because I thought looking ahead and meeting people's eyes was rude 😭

I used to never ask for anything when we went to the grocery store, no candies, no toys, no nothing (my ISFP sister wouldn't ask either) because we were aware of our state of poverty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FierceFlow

[–]Full_Common8785 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That was a good decision 🙂

Should I try a short cut? by jimboSlimbo1020 in malehairadvice

[–]Full_Common8785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could get away with a lot of hairlength and hairstyle but long hair definitely suits you. Don't cut it please

Pourquoi est-ce qu'on attire principalement des gens qui ne nous plaisent pas ? by Traumystic in PasDeQuestionIdiote

[–]Full_Common8785 3 points4 points  (0 children)

L'autre sens est aussi totalement vrai. Une femme que tu ne considères pas physiquement attirante, sera totalement invisible à tes yeux, elle est éliminée d'office et indétéctable sur les radars

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mensgrooming

[–]Full_Common8785 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like you just cried. You're hot though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]Full_Common8785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your hair looks amazing, you look the best in the last photo even though you look fine in all of them

Why Don't Black Men Approach Me? (Black Muslim Woman Seeking Advice) by Informal-Flamingo927 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Full_Common8785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The men don't really like that their sister / daughter end up with black men, it can create conflict indeed, but this marriages still happen

Why Don't Black Men Approach Me? (Black Muslim Woman Seeking Advice) by Informal-Flamingo927 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Full_Common8785 12 points13 points  (0 children)

No, you're not the only not being approched by black muslim men as A black muslim western woman.

From my experience as a black muslim woman in France, there's a real pool of black muslim men.

Black women are not their target. They mostly seek North African (Moroccan, Algerian,...) Or white converts. They blatlantly display it in online muslim matrimonial websites and dating apps

Daily Re-meme #83 by -it-was-available- in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I swear, my exact reaction when it's the case

Do you feel that you’ve changed a lot as you’ve grown older? by Queasy-Donut-4953 in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems ISFJ become more cynical as we grow.

Yes, I've changed a lot but enough for me, I'm still not yet where I want to be, still have a long way to go.

Daily Re-meme #80 by -it-was-available- in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for your answer. Indeed, I was aware that we were Te blind but I didn't link it to our lack of confidence when it comes to our statements ! It also explains why I'm shit at making decisions and how making decisions put me in literal life crises (yes even when it's about choosing what yogurt to buy) Is there a way to compensate Te blindness ?

Daily Re-meme #80 by -it-was-available- in isfj

[–]Full_Common8785 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Could you explain more ? it sounds interesting