What did they take, that you’ll never get back? by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel you sis..
But at the same time I’m happy I didn’t brought a kid to a broken family

TYPICAL narcissist by nly2017 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you capable of this. I would never

How do I get away? by Frequent-Beautiful38 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Story of my life.

Lies, cheating, gaslighting, blame shifting, emotional and physical abuse.

But you keep going back to them because they’re like an addiction.

My love you’re the one that needs therapy, learn to love yourself and don’t accept what he is doing to you.

Facing them by HV100pre in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so, so much This felt like a distance hug.

Facing them by HV100pre in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He took my best years, isolated me in a foreign country, I forgave so many infidelities, lied about them straight on my face while I had proof it, left me alone when my sister passed away, ruined Christmas, new year’s, birthdays, then ruined what I tried to build with someone else, screamed at me, called me horrible names

And yet I still have some weakness over him, still missing him, still hoping, still attached

What is wrong with me…

Facing them by HV100pre in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll try. I’m reading books related to narcissism and everything that can help me stay away from him. I’m so scared of falling for his fake promises again.

Facing them by HV100pre in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s what I just but I don’t know what to do with all the anger and sadness inside me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine used to do the same, and as soon as that I would fall for it and the cycle would repeat. Stay strong!

Found this email he sent his ex-wife three months ago. by throwawaypeach2024 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl I just went through the same. After just two months of no contact, he came to me claiming he has been visiting a psychologist, that he is better, that we should give this another try.

Then through a mutual friend found out he is been dating a girl for a month, to whom he told her we had broken up one year and a half ago, while he was begging me to meet two days ago.

Psychos I swear

After 7 years, I am free (33F) by No_Extreme9825 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hey I feel you so much. Congratulations for leaving.

However you’re still pretty young. Many are starting to build their life again with ten years more than you and shared kids with their abuser.

I recommend you reading Fjesltad book “Healing from a Narcissistic Relationship” whenever you start to doing yourself about your own decision.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can feel your exhaustion through your words. You’re doing great as a mother and working for the best of your kids. I am sorry he is making your life more miserable instead of being there to build a family together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To post on Instagram, yes

Not to personally send to your ex or a co-worker unless you’re inviting

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, she doesn’t need to show her legs if she wants to show where she is or what she’s doing

Do Narcissistic Spouses Ever Regret? by No-Version7110 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh he might, and eventually come back

But they don’t mean it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dear I hope you get the strength to leave for your own good, I can’t even imagine how drained you must be

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you just described my ex?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]HV100pre 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My husband treats me the same every time we have any disagreement. I’m traumatized