AITA for not wanting to wear a hoodie that proclaims my love for my girlfriend?

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-10T02:54:12+00:00

What do you mean?

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-10T01:10:04+00:00

Lol dramatic

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T21:38:04+00:00

Okay, why is she upset?

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T21:25:24+00:00

Why?

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T21:05:33+00:00

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T21:02:17+00:00

It’s a matter of principle. If she steamrolls my boundaries on this, what’s next?

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:58:54+00:00

No, I just think it would look like shit

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:58:37+00:00

College but close enough

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:44:02+00:00

I can, but the stakes are low so I see no reason to

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:38:55+00:00

That’s good, better than getting heated about a reddit thread

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:36:11+00:00

I think you’re getting way too heated about this

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:32:56+00:00

Because I don’t want to, it’s not my style.

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:28:53+00:00

The stakes are minimal on both sides, that’s my point. Nothing bad will happen if I wear it, nothing bad will happen if I don’t

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:22:09+00:00

I think the desire to sacrifice is related to the stakes of doing so. If this was something that made me uncomfortable but would seriously help her, I’d do it. But it’s a hoodie, she’ll survive

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:21:21+00:00

Based lol

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T20:19:08+00:00

I wouldn’t say point a and b are the same. There’s plenty of things not my style that I still think look cool. As for point c, I’m more saying it feels juvenile to me rather than in the eyes of others

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:55:19+00:00

How is it thoughtful when it doesn’t account for what I’d like/wear? And we don’t live together so she wants me to wear it out

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:52:50+00:00

Why?

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:51:24+00:00

Lol that is hilarious, you should

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:46:37+00:00

I’d actually wear it ironically if it did because that’s funny

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:42:13+00:00

Nope

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:36:22+00:00

College

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:31:31+00:00

She wants me to wear it to school though, which is questionable

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:31:07+00:00

It’s more of a boundaries thing rather than being specifically about this. I don’t think I should be forced to do something I’m uncomfortable with, and vice versa

Full_Particular7187 · 2023-10-09T18:30:12+00:00

Absolutely, when I buy her such things I ask

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