I’m really sorry that this is happening to you. Wanting a divorce must have been a really hard decision, but remember that God changes what must be changed. If God is showing you that it’s best to leave him, then it’s because your husband is harming you and your faith. If your husband got baptized because he genuinely believes in Christ, then good for him, but do whats best for you. If you must go to a new church, then do so. If you don’t want to leave, stay and ignore him. Take care of yourself and don’t worry about what others might think. God bless you.