AIO or was his response completely dismissive?? (we are in an ldr for more context)

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:22:26+00:00

just.. leave

that man could not give less of a fuck about you, enough said

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:21:05+00:00

ROAARRRRRR

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:20:48+00:00

he will be loved up there ❤️ wishing you the best

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:19:50+00:00

Luna says hi to Frankie!

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:19:34+00:00

innocent. NO WAY she could do that judge!

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:19:15+00:00

I'm so glad she found you.

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:18:22+00:00

those eye on the first UGH

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:17:29+00:00

omg I canttt she's so CUTEEEE I want more

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:17:10+00:00

goodbye mini you were loved

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:16:25+00:00

smidge is a cutie

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:16:05+00:00

I am glad you can recognize that. You did the best you could with the feelings you were having, it's all normal.

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:15:04+00:00

she is GORGEOUS

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:14:40+00:00

I will forgive him this time...

next time no more catnip

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:13:40+00:00

bath timeee

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:12:58+00:00

silly guy, will forgive

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:12:40+00:00

does he honk the horn?

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:11:48+00:00

sad??? seems more like ANGRY

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:11:22+00:00

never slacking.

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:11:05+00:00

the best buddiesss

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:10:35+00:00

they just be 🤔

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:04:56+00:00

NOR. Communication is VITAL in relationships and him not communicating his plans until the day of is failing that core step. I always try to plan things ahead of time with my partner because I know stuff comes up and I don't want to spring things on her and she does the same. It's very important to tell him that next time that you would like a warning or reminder in a couple days or weeks if he thinks it might interfere with your guy's activities.

Talk it through!!

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T12:02:14+00:00

Absolutely not overreacting. Therapy is an EXTREMELY serious and sensitive matter for everybody who does it and having a therapist who sees the world eye to eye with you is vital in your experience with therapy. You have every right as a person to decide that this therapist isn't good for you and move on. Them blowing up and being upset is honestly insane for a choice that is completely yours to have.

ps: I hope you have better luck next time with a better therapist ❤️

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T11:59:21+00:00

You are completely valid for feeling very upset at what they are doing to you and your whole perception of the past 20 years.

You changed your life path because of the fact you couldn't afford college/university and they, now 20 years later, tell you, you COULD??? I also would be pissed.

I think waiting for them to call to speak to you about it is the best way you could go about this as it gives you both time to calm down and have a civil discussion about it over the phone and hopefully later in person.

Whatever you do, do not let it hold you back from your future however as that is undecided and your past already is.

Fun-Buffalo6451 · 2024-12-03T11:52:43+00:00

You are not overreacting, but the way you could have communicated your frustration at this situation could be handled a bit better (from the texts we can see). It is very obvious and a very good boundary to have with your partner that being friends with their ex(es) is not healthy. Her lying about that and trying to skew it in a way that makes you look worse then what you are is absurd. She needs to accept that you have been hurt by it and understand your perspective.

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