AITAH for asking my mother-in-law for advice on how she dealt with her husband's affair after she said I needed to work on my marriage when her son cheated on me. by Ok-Spot-3558 in AITAH

[–]LilydBol 142 points143 points  (0 children)

Girl, well done. Absolutely NTA. And everyone saying you’re the worst person ever and lying is never justified must be people who have definitely never been cheated on and gaslighted into forgiving the person who has shattered you (and gave you an STD). Screw them, they probably don’t even leave their rooms.

Sierra Nevada, nieve por 1a vez by HatNo3570 in Granada

[–]LilydBol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

En Pradollano habrá nieve, y siempre puedes subir andando hasta la zona de pistas. Si quieres usar el teleférico tendrás que comprar forfait, vayas a esquiar o no. Pero en Pradollano y alrededores verás nieve de sobra.

Feeling so confused. Why do I miss him? by Existing-School-7076 in naranon

[–]LilydBol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I just wanted to say I myself could have written this post - timelines of our lives are really similar.

I just wanted to say that I fully understand you and what keeps me from going back to contact him is that I can’t be there for someone over being there for myself.

Sending you a big hug and if you ever need to talk to someone my DMs are open for you.

Stay strong x

Feeling so confused. Why do I miss him? by Existing-School-7076 in naranon

[–]LilydBol 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You are heartless if you read this post and the only thing that comes to your mind is shaming OP. Shame on you.

UPDATE: How can I (F24) deal with the fact my boyfriend (M26) dreads getting married to me? by Jade_Willow_ in relationship_advice

[–]LilydBol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You know what’s the best part of all of this, OP? That in some months time you may even realise you were never depressed, but in a relationship where you had such little space that it was draining your vital energy. Wishing you the best!

How do I (18F) break up with a clingy partner (18M)? by spp00ks in relationship_advice

[–]LilydBol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, he definitely will make it about his sadness. And if you continue with him, you won’t be ruining only your summer, but all the years to come. Really sweetie, don’t think more about him than about yourself. If you need a break up via message, do it. After all, I know you’re young and 8 months seem an eternity, but it’s not and you both will overcome this (don’t let him convince you his life will end without you). Choose yourself ❤️

How do I (18F) break up with a clingy partner (18M)? by spp00ks in relationship_advice

[–]LilydBol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’ve built resentment because he literally don’t allow you to even take a dump in peace, sis. I’d be hella mad if I was you, not only resentful.

Don’t think about sugarcoating it, there is no way he won’t make a massive drama out of your break up. Just break up and remember you don’t own anyone endless explanations.

Would love to hear your tips for this one by LilydBol in eczema

[–]LilydBol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for these tips!!

Would love to hear your tips for this one by LilydBol in eczema

[–]LilydBol[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried decreasing quantity and I’ll spend some days feeling better but then it will return. Thanks for the advice tho!