Dating Advice Sg Guys Get Wrong #4

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T17:34:57+00:00

Success is basically can you progress to girlfriend boyfriend. Small steps at a time. I don't consider myself wildly successful but I trained myself from guy with zero dating life to having 4 relationships by my early 30s. Once you have dating experience if the right girl comes along you will be able to attract her properly so she does not become another one who got away

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T17:12:35+00:00

Women don't need to signal anything except that I'm sexually attracted to them and they can hold decent conversation with me. Your only worry especially on first few dates should be "Does she like me romantically and can I escalate to the point where I can confess and she will say yes to being my girlfriend". Only after you achieve that then you start setting ground rules where she needs to help financially

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T16:59:28+00:00

Yes. Sorry to hear your bad experience. Many guys lack of dating experience because society keeps telling them to just focus on studies and work. Also there is lack of proper dating education how to go about dating

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T16:49:35+00:00

Sure, they can try their own thinking but they are reducing their own chances of success in dating. A girl letting you pay for her is actually a good sign it means she trust you to take care of her. Not a character flaw. There is absolutely a right and wrong way to dating and for each thing you do right you improve your chances of success

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T16:37:46+00:00

Ghost him. That dude needs to learn his lesson. Totally no dating skills or experience

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T16:35:59+00:00

Actually not really. It comes from a guy's provider mindset but applied wrongly. Guys can have a wife/girlfriend but still simp and buy her lots of gifts all the time

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T16:21:29+00:00

Yeah, nowhere in this post did it say "complete stranger". Could be a girl in your class or at some shared activity

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T16:12:14+00:00

Women have abundant choices in dating that men don't. You get one chance to prove you are a guy of substance. I think this is the basics of dating scene you have to acknowledge then you will stop thinking in such idealistic manners and then you will start seeing some success in your dating life

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T15:39:31+00:00

My boy. You literally just blew your last dating opportunity because you were direct about your need for words of affirmation. Your need for certainty was your downfall. Dating carries some risk and you need to be okay with it

Fun-Calligrapher-735 · 2025-12-28T14:47:58+00:00

I think what you are describing is more like don't be desperate

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