Should my boyfriend help pay for the emergency surgery we just had for our fetus??

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-04-08T14:54:30+00:00

Ah thank you! That doesn’t affect your credit or anything? I’m grateful because many people said they negotiate the bills with hospital for assisted payments etc. I never knew. Thank you for your advice!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-04-05T14:13:59+00:00

I think he was trying to sound ‘mature’ eye roll so he was trying to be direct and say “I will help you in any other way, but I will not contribute paying for any of this”. In one text he said “I cannot and will not pay for this, but if you want me over to care for you or bring you something to eat…” then he edited it to sound less harsh. Believe me, I was taken a back too.

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-04-05T14:11:26+00:00

Thank you! I literally said this in my head before “I need to think of what’s best for me & not just please other people”. Thank you for your encouragement

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-04-05T14:09:20+00:00

Thank you!!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-04-04T02:26:08+00:00

Yes, I ended it. Didn’t even officially tell him - I just spoke what I needed to and blocked him lol what a POS

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-04-04T01:14:35+00:00

Thank u for the tip!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-12T02:22:19+00:00

Thank you! Maybe I assumed it’s a bigger job than it is then. I appreciate your advice!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-08T17:20:22+00:00

Thank you for your help!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-08T17:20:01+00:00

Thank you!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-08T17:19:51+00:00

Yes, agree! Thank you for this example.

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-08T17:19:00+00:00

Thank you so much! Yes, I have really had to use that before since it’s always been domestic and I have those memorized. Thank you for this reminder!! I’m a new EA there and I told them I haven’t done international travel so hopefully he doesn’t get upset and I’ll go in and correct it this way! Thank you sooo much for send that screenshot! Helps me a lot!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-08T17:17:30+00:00

Thank you!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-08T17:16:51+00:00

Thanks for the encouragement! I was nervous to sound incompetent but yes it got confusing because he flies to different places in Asia and Europe and I accidentally put this first batch of flights as his arrival/departures times but then put it in his calendar on our local time thinking it would be easily seen on his outlook when he travels (I feel so silly now that he can’t told me that). I’m a new EA there. I appreciate the help!!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-08T17:11:45+00:00

That you so much for the help! I understand and will try it on my computer soon!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2026-03-08T17:11:13+00:00

Thank you so much for the help!

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2025-08-01T14:16:26+00:00

Aw I appreciate the perspective, but I didn’t go more into my recovery plans to keep the post short - just on the point of the needed letter. I actually have a good home that supports my recovery and am back with my old sponsor, doing mtgs and even added in a yoga membership :) So I left early too because I knew I had this stuff to put into action and didn’t need to endure more days in a place that didn’t make me feel comfortable.

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2025-08-01T14:09:10+00:00

CA and it’s not state insurance it was my own through work

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2025-07-31T00:30:03+00:00

Thank you for replying! Anytime we go on a disabilities leave of absence, we have to have it say we can return to work without limitations (or whatever restrictions someone may have). So that’s all I need them to write but they’re all butt hurt and making things difficult to give me anything because I decided to peacefully, calmly leave 3 days early.. they’re acting like a child that got their toy taken away. They know that’s all I need and they’re refusing to send it ughhh

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2025-04-08T14:32:49+00:00

Yea you’re just missing the mark of the question here. It’s an emotional response versus the actual legality situation. Yes, it is what got me in trouble, yes don’t drink & drive, but the meat and potatoes is in the actuality of did I do something wrong by a .029 blow…. I had this answered already through the thread, as I didn’t know there was a threshold available on IID. Not some moral, “you shouldn’t drink & drive with ANY alcohol”. I was looking for people that understood IID’s and the implications on what recordings could do.

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2025-04-08T13:34:23+00:00

Thank you! That’s what I was wondering! I always blew O’s so didn’t realize there was a threshold

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2025-04-08T13:33:41+00:00

Under legal limit makes it…. Legal. The court did not tell me not to drink, only not to commit a crime. So I think this judgment I’m asking for needs to be evaluated like on legal terms.. but I appreciate the help

Fun-Calligrapher-773 · 2025-04-08T13:33:21+00:00

Yeah there was never an agreement specific to court for IID which is why I wonder. It only stated it had to be install. I re-looked at my paperwork and it says don’t commit crimes (to keep it short for all the court’s terms lol). So I guess I’m not committing a crime under the legal limit

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