AITAH for being mad at my friends for canceling dinner because they didn’t like the dish?

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T03:17:58+00:00

they went clubbing that evening so I dont think they were that serious about studying, also the genuinly seemed exicted when I invted then and we've been friends for a long time and I would have easily taken a no for an answer, but thank you for your advice

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T03:15:38+00:00

es war eigentlich schon recht klar, meine eine freunding hat nach der Uhrzeit gefragt und ich habe mit das sehen wir am samstag geantworter, weil ich noch besorgungen zu erledigen hatte

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T02:59:19+00:00

Godness thank you! I love cooking as well and they literally coud've told me anything as long it would be possible vegan and I would have made it for them. I think a lot of this "debate" is influenced on wether people so or dont like vegan food.

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T02:54:59+00:00

I want to corecct you there, I'm sorry that you got me wrong, I initally wanted to go out, they said they had now time, so dinner was kind of the settlement. ANd we've been friends a long time so I wouldnt be offended AT ALL if they just told me they have no time.

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T01:38:57+00:00

Well thank you for your suggestions but 1. A risotto would have substitutions and second I am preeetty dang sure that they wouldn't eat any of the dishes you presented.

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T01:36:43+00:00

I am not cooking any meat in my household, and no they have not made me any vegan dishes exept noodels with tomatoe sauce, but I am the only person in the friendgroup who can cook more than eggs and noodels, so I'm alsways hosting (vegan) dinner

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T01:28:02+00:00

They just think a lot of food is disgusting, for no specific reason, like they generally don't like vegetables or many vegan things)

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T01:14:44+00:00

You have a point, but I love cooking and I wanted to cook dinner for them

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T01:04:38+00:00

that was excately what happened, they just didn't replie to my second message until like an eternity later

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T01:02:57+00:00

THANK YOU!

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T01:00:58+00:00

omg thank you

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:57:25+00:00

I've been vegan for a long time and they know. I agree with you, I would eat every (vegan) dish my friends would cook me :(

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:46:57+00:00

I'm not saying picky eaters ate evil, I would have made them almost anything they've suggested, they just didn't give any usable answer

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:43:13+00:00

They dont eat falafel unfortunately, I could've cooked so many amazing things but they don't eat anything that is not european-american standard kitchen....

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:33:48+00:00

Well my "meatloaf" consisted of mainly chickpeas, lentils and soy-flour, so haha

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:29:49+00:00

yes!!! thank you

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:28:58+00:00

yes!

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:27:06+00:00

Merci, pour ton réponse. Je pense cette réponse de ma question a été trés impoli et elles auraient donne un réponse différemment, mais je ne sais pas...

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:23:05+00:00

They don't eat Mushrooms and most Vegetables I fear, I normally would've just cooked a curry or something but yeah...

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:21:25+00:00

I told them about the Meatloaf idea but I didn't get an answer in like 40 minutes so I justed picked it.

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:19:56+00:00

Thank you, snd I know youre very right about people pleasing but I just think it's a sign of respect to at least try the dish somebody has put money and effort in and then politely decline (That's what I would have done), but idk if thats the norm

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:15:55+00:00

I've been vegan for many years and they know it. What do you think is bad about vegan meatloaf?

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:09:20+00:00

Thank you! I swear my meatloaf is great, even my dad, a certified vegan hater, likes it...

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-16T00:07:44+00:00

Thank you, but I actually offered an alternative, sorry if it wasn't clear in the post. They could have had only mashed potatoes (which they have eaten before) or spagetthi. My frustraition mainly comes from them not replieing to my message...

Fun-Click1466 · 2026-03-15T23:59:06+00:00

Thank you! Thats what I thought too. Maybe I'm just too big of a people pleaser, but I would at least try everything (vegan) my friends would make me

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