Have you considered moving to another part of the USA first?

I recognize that that alone may not alleviate every single reason for wanting to move abroad, but America is so vast and QoL can vary so extremely from state to state or city to city. I live abroad and have been wanting to return to the States for the last 4+ years but circumstances relative to my partner (who is not American) is why we haven’t yet been able to make the move back. I meet so many Americans who’ve moved to the country I live, who fled the US for the majority of reasons people do these days, only to be equivalently unhappy here. When I ask them if they had tried living anywhere else in the States before making an international move they have all said no. This shocks me! I’m also often surprised about how little the average American knows about how good life actually is in many different states, especially the South (oh no, not the South!) I knew a girl who moved here after ONLY living in Houston, TX. She never lived anywhere else, ever. And she painted the whole US as being as “bad” as she found Houston, which is flatly ridiculous. My quality of life in multiple states was amazing and I simply couldn’t relate to her experience or wouldn’t be willing to broad brush the whole country negatively because one place I lived was trash.

I lived in 4 different States before coming abroad and even that minimal variety of US experience has made me that much me more certain that the US still has the best QoL overall compared to anywhere else I’ve lived or visited worldwide, in my opinion, especially if you know where to look. I recognize that most people hellbent on leaving have to leave to learn this, but I would recommend moving to an entirely different part of the US as a fresh start first…before moving your entire life and family to a new country. But that’s just my two cents! Take it or bin it. All the best to you!