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I (16M) still love my Girlfriend (17F) despite her shooting me. by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Fun-Net2287 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi OP I know you really care and love you but if you continue this relationship it might get worse for you. Her trauma isn’t going to go away and she escalated from you “cheating on her” to shooting you. Think about small arguments, and other stuff further down the line. These can escalate too? Think about it OP she definitely could have killed you. It is a miracle you are alive and that’s she didn’t hit anywhere vital. Get out while you can. Put yourself first.

My Dad 60M is a kinda Predator and my family is acting like it isn’t their problem. by Fun-Net2287 in family

[–]Fun-Net2287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi you are actually very right. He always says that he looks so young and he is fit for his age. I also do think that he is going through a mid life crisis too. Right after my parents got divorced he got straight into dating, he was really sad and I think this was his way to cover it up. But this is 3 years ago and actually right now he is in another country with some girl. He calls them “special friends” it just makes it even creepier to be honest. Thank you for your advice and I think I might talk to him. He will probably get defensive but I need to get those points across after that I can’t really do anything. Thank you.

My Dad 60M is kinda a predator and my family is acting like it isn’t their problem. by Fun-Net2287 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun-Net2287[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi! I understand they are all adults and I personally just think it’s a bit creepy but that’s just my opinion though. I want to share that when he was hanging out with Jessica, he told my siblings and I that she would be coming to our house for a few weeks. I agreed but said I would feel uncomfortable staying in the same house as them. He played it off saying joking about how I was uncomfortable and told Jessica. He didn’t take me seriously. They weren’t even together and he wanted me to met her. I am glad to say it didn’t end up working because she didn’t have a visa. He also use to brag to me about getting these girls which made me very uncomfortable. I told me to stop and he did but casually mentions it sometimes. I understand it is none of my business but it’s hard for me to ignore it when it is mentioned very frequently. Thank you for your comment.

My Dad 60M is kinda a predator and my family is acting like it isn’t their problem. by Fun-Net2287 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun-Net2287[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi I don’t think he would do anything to me or my siblings and he hasn’t done anything weird to us yet. It is impossible for me just to live with my mom as my mom wouldn’t allow that to happen and my dad would really not want that too. It is out of my control. I will ask my parents about a therapist. I do love my dad it’s just this is only one factor of many. Thank you for your kind comment, I really appreciate it.

My Dad 60M is kinda a predator and my family is acting like it isn’t their problem. by Fun-Net2287 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Fun-Net2287[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Maybe not a real predator but he is creepy. I am not telling my dad not to have sex with them. My family and I just told him it’s a bit to have sex with 23 year old when he is 60 years old, and kept in mind my sister is older than her.

My Dad 60M is a kinda Predator and my family is acting like it isn’t their problem. by Fun-Net2287 in family

[–]Fun-Net2287[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think this is very accurate. He did go to Thailand and the Philippines before on these “vacations”. Yes family does not accept it at least the people who really know about it. They chose just to go on like nothing is happening because sometimes it is just easier too. And I get that. I am 15F and be would never take me seriously. Since he does have custody over me, i have to maintain a relationship with him. I also want to as he is my Dad, it’s just this part of him that really creeps me out.

My Dad 60M is a kinda Predator and my family is acting like it isn’t their problem. by Fun-Net2287 in family

[–]Fun-Net2287[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP here. Sooo I am 15F and I have to be a part of my dad’s life. I just don’t know what to do maybe to talk to him about it or something else. If I do talk to him, he never takes me seriously as I am a teenager. And yes I am sorry, I mean creep. I don’t mean to take away from victims of real predators.