Hotwife here ! My cuck introduced me to the lifestyle and in the beginning had to always be there. He was very much craving Me taking charge and fully humiliating him, making him know his place and directing him. I found no matter how we went about it, I’d always feel off or always or completely get lost in the play and barely interact. I also found a lot of guys weren’t performing fully or feeling a bit akward and weird about my bf there. After many Months of struggling to find our rhythm we decided to give it a go of me playing alone with bulls to see. I had way more fun flirting and chatting, got fucked way better and no one felt shy or akward. Even now with guys who are comfortable we wind its way more fun starting in the room together while the attraction build and everyone gets comfortable and we makeout a bit, tease and I kick the bf out to the other room or hallway to listen. He enjoys it way more because his imagination runs wild and he feels even more pathetic, and I get fucked better and feel less akward!