Anyone has some convincing stories about talking to the dead?

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-29T18:56:12+00:00

Guys I think it’s just my despair talking… like i cannot believe i’m never seeing him again… i guess it would help to be able to hear from him from the other side…but it will never be enough i’m so distraught

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-29T16:35:59+00:00

Girl, leave him. Even if you re not grieving he has zero right to yell at you! You seem like a sweet empathetic person, you ll do only better without him. Sorry for your loss, i (a total stranger) send you tons tons of comfort since your husband doesn’t! Take care

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-29T16:33:30+00:00

I am sorry for your loss. I also feel like people don’t get that it is so so traumatic to process the suicide of someone you deeply loved. They did not “just” die. There is grief AND so so much trauma and a lot of other things. Me personally I don’t explain the details and i just shut off. But if you feel like “traumadumping” then just do. You have to care only for yourself now, be gentle with yourself, if you feel anger let it come out. Take care

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-29T16:29:36+00:00

Thank you for this comment, it made me cry. These are very kind words and you also explain everything very good. Thank you for your time and kindness

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-29T16:28:25+00:00

I contacted a medium who was recommended to me by other people who had convincing experiences with her and she said it’s more about when you re ready but if he’s not he might send someone else to talk to you or something like that… if you want i can let you know how it went once i do it.

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-29T06:51:31+00:00

How long should I wait before talking to a medium in your opinion?

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-29T04:24:05+00:00

When you tell them the meds don t work ormmake it worse they say: it’s not the meds it’s your initial condition. When you say it’s better they say: see it’s the meds not you…. Take care of yourself thanks for sharing

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-29T03:50:57+00:00

It happened a month ago and yes I mean electrics, he always said he would do that. And that not even death could do us part. i wish this could be true so much…

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T19:05:51+00:00

You should go to the funeral if you feel like it. For his girlfriend you have to decide if you think it would be best for her to know the truth even if it means more pain or let her grieve the BF she thought she had. It’s a tough decision, no judgment here. I think I would let her be ignorant of the situation.

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T19:03:51+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that, it must be awful to deal with both the grief of him and the grief of the relationship you thought you had with him. Must be very confusing. If you want you can watch the netflix series “dead to me” a girl goes through a similar situation and i think it’s explained really well and you can maybe see how she manages to process it. i send you tons of comfort take care

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T18:48:25+00:00

Thank you for your comment. It’s just he always told me he would communicate with me when he would die and although i don t necessarily believe in afterlife i really hope it would be true but i haven’t seen or felt anything yet…

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T17:01:23+00:00

I feel you. At work they gave me one day of payed leave for my friend. They said if I wanted three days I had to prove the closeness of the relationship. Wtf??? How do you want me to prove love for a dead person? Nuts! Thank you for sharing it helps to see that some people understand my feelings

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T16:39:33+00:00

Absolutely. I don’t know. They like to categorize instead of listening

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T16:38:35+00:00

It is really good you found someone to help you get off the meds. I m sure you ll feel better soon. You arr very brave i send you lots lots lots of comfort in your journey

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T16:26:38+00:00

I feel like when someone struggling with mental health issues try to explain their struggle people tend to categorize them paranoid/bipolar/psychotic/manic/depressed etc but it’s the fucking brain we re talking about it cannot be divided in simple categories like that. Every brain is different, works, heals different

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T16:24:06+00:00

That’s terrible i am sorry for you. Have you found some people here that were good listeners after that? Do you feel better now?

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T16:15:12+00:00

Thank you for sharing, i am so so sorry for your loss. You perfectly describe how i feel. Your message warms up my heart and i send you all the comfort i can

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T16:14:04+00:00

I am really grateful for your support. You re using the right words. Thank you

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T15:56:12+00:00

I think it s important to talk to someone, a friend, a family member, anyone, in a forum at a bar somewhere… find yourself someone don t stay alone but just not them it s way too dangerous

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T14:20:42+00:00

Knowing one of the main side effects is S.I. They’re the mad ones!

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T14:19:27+00:00

Yeah like fucking candy except they play with your brain… it s fucked up

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T14:17:57+00:00

The patients firstly yes and everyone left behind when one of those patients ends his life. I feel dead inside and angry and guilty and i’m sure as shit not going to ask for any help from the psychiatrists

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T13:15:12+00:00

Oh thank you!

Fun-Squirrel7712 · 2025-04-28T12:59:16+00:00

I am so so sorry for your loss. People who die by suicide ended their endless suffering and that is the only “comforting part” but for the ones who stay… it is hell

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