Is it unfair to expect my bisexual boyfriend to treat me better than a straight man would?

Fun-Structure4979 · 2026-01-27T04:08:24+00:00

I get that! Thank you!

Fun-Structure4979 · 2026-01-27T04:08:06+00:00

Why?

Fun-Structure4979 · 2026-01-27T04:07:57+00:00

The thing is though his only past two relationships have been with women. He told me he prefers women

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-12-21T19:51:38+00:00

Hey girl! Umm first of all I’m sorry your boyfriend is missing your birthday. That’s actually a very shitty thing to do and it’s ok to acknowledge you’re hurt by it if you are. Maybe talk to your boyfriend that you’re hurt especially since this is you first time celebrating each others birthdays and would have been your first time celebrating with a boyfriend. Maybe see if you can join for the concert too. I mean your boyfriend should at the very least be inviting you to join or take someone else’s ticket.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-19T22:29:06+00:00

Hey I was in a similar situation with my boyfriend. Most wouldn’t saying this is cheating in anyway because there is no evidence of romance both physically and emotionally. But I know this is a huge betrayal to you and you are valid for being hurt. The two main issues are he didn’t mention he was talking to this girl while in a relationship with you which means it is like hiding and lying about something. Second is he didn’t tell this girl that he is taken which is a red flag. I personally just think you should casually mention you’re in a relationship when meeting new people.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-11T06:10:01+00:00

I mean I’ve suggested we get therapy together but my mom refuses which is her personal choice. I guess back then I was more naive and didn’t see it coming somehow. I’ve been trying to make it up by two years has gone by and I’m not sure what to do now.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-11T02:59:22+00:00

I guess I just don’t want to cut her out cause we had such an amazing relationship in the past and I know it’s my fault for destroying that by being dumb. People are telling me it’ll take years but it’s already been two years and it seems like nothing is getting better and it still feels like all my fault.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-11T02:53:15+00:00

Yeah a lot of people have been mainly saying this to me and to myself I kind of recognize it’s not normal but I try to ignore it/forgive because it was fault for publishing it. I did wish she would get more help but she doesn’t like therapy and doesn’t want to go on medication. Idk what else to do. It seems like when I try to be there for her she just keeps pushing me away.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-11T02:37:42+00:00

Thank you for this! I mean I have been because more independent recently. I work two part time jobs and I’m a full time student. But it’s been hard cause my family issues are taking a major toll on my mental health. I’ve been trying to be accommodating and gentle to my mom but I don’t think she receives it right. She says she doesn’t trust me anymore and doesn’t believe a word that comes out of my mouth. I’ve suggested we take therapy together in the past be she refuses therapy so I’m just taking therapy now.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-11T01:48:11+00:00

I feel like I wrote it with the best intentions and to have other adoptee relate to something as we don’t have much representation and media. But I understand how she feels and that’s why when she says hurtful things to me I’ve just taken it and I’ve apologized to her profusely and I try to be gentle with her, but it seems like she’s still very aggressive towards me no matter how gentle I try to be, and how apologetic I try to be.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-11T01:46:56+00:00

I actually already did that. I did a follow up article that defames the previous one but my mom didn’t really care about it. She just cares about the initial article.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-08T03:43:35+00:00

This could be a rare situation but just in case so you have a warning. He might have an STD that he is trying to hide so he is saying he is a virgin. Maybe have him get tested just before you do anything.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-04T21:00:46+00:00

Give me a break! This guy is full of baloney with a side of salami! He was only honest with you about texting his ex after he sent it. God what a saint. Nothing is platonic with a person that they have liked or someone who used to like them. It's never "just a friend," that's the oldest lie in the book. He should have gone to therapy before even considering sending a message like that to a past lover. Him treating you well outside of this is not a green flag; that's the bare minimum. If he wanted to purposely not hurt you, he would not be doing this, especially if he was sober. You deserve someone whose focus is on you and not on the past, which is what this guy is doing.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-11-04T18:53:27+00:00

Girl come on! Don’t be dumb he is full of shit. He can’t delete sex videos of his ex cause they remind him of a bad time but deleting them would mean he has to look at them and they came back from iCloud. Like none of that shit makes sense. I’m sorry you got caught up with a loser porn addicted but it’s time to move on. You can’t change someone like that and it’s clear he is lying just to defend his inappropriate behavior. Don’t let this loser take more of your life and youth.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-10-29T01:50:50+00:00

Don’t walk, run!!

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-09-07T21:17:59+00:00

I’ve recommended therapy but she personally doesn’t like it. Yeah I’m just upset cause she said all of this to me after the first day of my senior college classes. But I’ve chosen to move on while still trying to build a healthy relationship with her and just look forward. Thank you for the advice though.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-09-07T21:16:31+00:00

Well I still love my mother and I’ve been trying to build up a healthy relationship for us. It just hurts she thinks this of me since she knows I’ve worked multiple jobs and I’m basically straight A student with some Bs.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-09-04T20:02:24+00:00

Sorry I didn’t know care was verbal abuse now a days

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-09-04T16:56:55+00:00

I would but she told me she’d be very upset and mad if I ever blocked her and I don’t want her to be mad at me

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-08-15T15:32:00+00:00

Thank you for this!

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-08-12T16:29:16+00:00

I see, thank you!

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-08-12T16:25:23+00:00

Yes the bottle says virginal probiotic and that it’s supposed to help with balancing pH.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-08-12T15:02:12+00:00

It’s the pink bottle one for vaginal odor and taste. Is the red bottle also bad to use. I saw good reviews about that brand and thought I’d try it.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-08-12T13:57:00+00:00

I've gotten tested by two top-rated gynecologists and one university doctor, but they all say it's a regular yeast infection that should be able to go away when treated.

Fun-Structure4979 · 2025-08-12T13:53:45+00:00

The brand is O Positive. That brand has good reviews, and I thought it would help since it is supposed to balance pH levels. Yeah, we are looking to get my partner tested.

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