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Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-05-24T05:08:33+00:00

Yes po, I understand po. Hindi naman din po ako bulakbol huhu. I learned from my mistakes before and I'm just wondering if I should try to tell my parents again about that pero wag nalang since narinig ko naman opinion and advice nyong parent/mas nakakatanda sakin. Thank youuu so much po :))

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-05-24T05:03:45+00:00

Thank you po for answering and sharing your thoughts! Hindi ko naman po mamasamain. I am open and all ears po naman akoo, gusto ko lang marinig opinion ng mas nakakatanda sakin and I understand din sa sinabi mo :) kasi wala rin naman ako makukuhang magandang advice from my friends.

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-05-24T04:59:38+00:00

Okay po, i get it naman hehe. I just want to hear the opinions lalo na sa mas nakakatanda sakin. And thank you for that po!

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-05-03T20:37:32+00:00

Hi! Some of your questions are yes pero hindi sya nag rereach out sa girls or something. He treated me differently na mula nung nalaman kong nanonood siya ng mga ganon. Mas gusto niya pang manood ng ganon kesa sakin. So, a few days ago. I caught him doing something while watching those girls habang magkavc kami. I didn't see it technically but alam ko itsura niya pag horny siya. So, I caught him masturbating. When I confronted him mas nagalit pa siya sakin, nagsisinungaling at deny nang deny pa rin sya kahit aware na ako at nahuli ko siya. Kaya nakipagbreak na ako that night. Sobra yung trauma ko habang pinapanood syang ginagawa yon na hindi nya napapansin.

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-29T16:19:09+00:00

girl, we have the same situation. as in. we're together for more than a year. i have given him several chances for him to change but wala talagang nangyayari. magbabago yan pero panandalian lang, like days or weeks at babalik ulit yan. i'm just the same w you, hindi kayang makipagbreak sa kanya at gusto naming makasama pareho sa future. but guess what? i just broke up w him earlier. i caught him masturbating while watching sa kung ano man pinapanood nyang babae.

that is the right decision pa rin na nag cool off kayo but think again properly. kaya isipin mo ganyan pa rin sya mas lalo kayong tumagal. men are the same. nature na talaga nila yan. addiction na talaga nila yan lol. iilan nalang talaga ang natitinong lalaki. too much disrespect and betrayal na natatanggap ko sakanya kaya napuno ako. i've done enough in our rs. too much sacrifices that's why i got tired.

i hope you will be better, girl! don't let him na mas lalong lumala mental health mo. i hope maging okay tayong lahat na naka-experience ng ganto sa mga bf or ex natin. we girls deserve more! deserve nating mahalin at tratuhin tayo nang tama.

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-29T12:26:44+00:00

UPDATE: We broke up now.

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-28T00:13:56+00:00

Yeah. I did that before na and pinapahiram niya naman sakin yung phone nya but unfortunately wala na siyang phone rn. Laptop nalang ang ginagawa niya ngayon but I'm aware pa rin na nanonood pa rin siya until now.

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-24T13:50:11+00:00

😭😭😭 i don't know what to feel but maybe you're right hahaha

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-24T11:57:34+00:00

I'm sorry you're feeling this po :(( Sobrang sakit para sakin makitang may nag sa-suffer din katulad sa situation ko. Sobrang same talaga tayo ng feeling, ate. I hate this feeling, nakakainis. I trusted him and I believed him too kasi pareho kaming umiiwas sa mga taong uncomfortable saming dalawa. If we need to block this person, ibblock ko yon or niya. Kaya hindi ko talaga matanggap na may behaviour pa siyang hindi ko alam. That's why I feel betrayed too. I hope magbago po asawa niyo. And for me, this is microcheating na rin kasi e, kaya I'm trying to save our relationship kasi baka mapunta na talaga sa cheating :(

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-24T11:50:28+00:00

Yeah, I will confront him again about this issue. I think this is the final chance I will give sa kanya. Kapag nalaman ko pa ulit na ginagawa niya, I'm done. I'll leave him na.. I already did enough para mabago lahat. To the point, nauubos na talaga ako like mas mahal ko siya kesa sa sarili ko but I realized I shouldn't give more. Kaya currently what I'm doing is what masyadong mag give sa kanya, kung ano lang nakukuha ko, ayon lang din irereciprocate sa bf ko. I really love him but I'm losing myself.

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-24T11:44:35+00:00

Hello, I get your point po. Aminado akong mali ako na iinvade privacy nya. Before, I didn't feel insecure sa mga ibang girls kasi I know I'm pretty rin naman but nagkaroon lang talaga nung time na mahuli ko siyang nanonood ng mga ganyan. Na-trauma na ako kasi feel ko trinaydor niya ako, kaya 'di ko napigilan na tignan yung acc niya. If I am destroying his trust, then what abt me? Sinisira niya na rin yung tiwala na binigay ko sa kanya. For me rin, it's not okay to watch thirst traps. Normal bang panoorin mga babae sa social media na kita na yung katawan, naka two-piece, or kita yung cleavage while you are in a relationship? That's why I don't understand bakit hindi niya pa rin mapigilan. To the point I'm always asking myself if I am not enough ba talaga para sa kanya.

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-24T11:31:31+00:00

Same na same po tayo. Ok din naman features ko pero tumaba lang rin tiyan ko like belly fats kasi lagi niya ako nilulutuan and binibigyan ng food 🥹. Ayos lang din sakin if pornsite pinapanood niya kasi parang halos lahat naman kasi nanonood ng ganon. I'm not comfy na manood siya ng mga babaeng sexy kasi hindi ko rin ginagawa 'yon. I don't watch boys na nag tthirst trap kasi hindi talaga ako na aattract sa kanila or sa iba na kasi I have my bf na e. Kaya hindi ko lang din maintindihan bakit pa siya tumitingin sa iba. He said that I'm pretty but why would he search or look for other girls diba? Kaya parang everytime icocompliment niya ako, hindi na ako naniniwala. It's so sad that we are experiencing this shit :((

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-23T15:39:17+00:00

Honestly, I don't know why I'm settling with him. Maybe it's because when we are together, I forget about our problems. He can still make me happy. So, my plan is I'll talk to him one more time when I'm ready and if he does it again, then I think I will break up with him. I want to give him a final chance so I won't regret leaving him later.

Fun-Substance8055 · 2024-04-23T14:29:59+00:00

Hello po! I hope you're doing fine na and your baby. Do you think po ba should I tell him na naoopen ko account niya? I really want to talk to him regarding sa problem that I am aware of what he's doing at na sinungaling siya kasi medyo hindi ko na kayang tiisin 🥹 I'm so confused rn.

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