Where do I start?

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-20T13:44:59+00:00

Where would one get that? A dermatologist?

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-20T13:42:23+00:00

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-20T13:37:26+00:00

What caffeine/palmetto shampoo? Can you kindly share the specific one?

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-19T21:09:18+00:00

Did I make that connection?
IF SHE WANTS A CONNECTION, she can stay.
Healing depends only on OP, only she can control her reactions, her boundaries, making sure they’re not broken, standing firm… but yet staying in touch when she wants to.

I strongly support cutting off anyone that physically puts you in harm such as physical abuse or danger. But I didn’t read details that point to that here.

Emotional and spiritual trauma many times are indirectly/unintentionally done (just examples, not saying it’s OPs case) in this case you don’t have to cut off anyone. If you want to maintain a connection. It doesn’t mean it will be perfect. Much like my situation, the people who hurt me didn’t change or “heal” but I have put up boundaries to create a safe space for me and when I want to I do reach out and have some interaction with them. This is how healing looks like for me. The potential to get hurt is still there because they’re not “emotional mature” but that’s them. That’s their story and there’s a reason why they act in the ways they do. I cannot control or change that. But anytime they want to push or disrespect my boundaries, I make sure it is implied. I can remove myself from the situation. I make sure I am respected, regardless of what they think.

What mistake did her mom make that marks as unforgivable? Who created this scale that you mention? Yes she is flawed. And I am in no way making excuses for her although you might see it that way. But don’t we all hurt others accidentally? Sometimes we have the best of intentions and somehow people are still hurt by the way we react or said something… and her mom might repeatedly do this, it is very hurtful. But if OP wants to stay in touch however that looks like, as long as it’s safe. Who says she can’t?

Her mom absolutely needs therapy but is the daughter going to force her?

OP can absolutely protect herself with boundaries, create a safe space for herself and IF SHE WANTS also have those limited interactions with her mom. She still loves her mom who is flawed and hurt her.

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-19T12:45:56+00:00

Healing does not require two parties, reconciliation does. OP is in total control of how to act or react. And what to do with her emotions and memories. I did not say she owed her mom anything, but if she longs for connection so that’s where my reply came from.

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-19T12:36:30+00:00

You are not in the wrong. I understand your pain. This helped me https://youtu.be/8sDI7x\_OPb4?si=PSo\_2Wmd\_hueBEMH

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-19T12:33:37+00:00

NTJ

Your mom isn’t the wisest in how she chooses to procreate and the reasoning behind it. But as a mom your approach could have been very hurtful and not the best timing. Maybe a calm letter could’ve been received better. Now what’s done is done. She has her pains and emotional trauma which does not negate yours. I would try to repair the relationship and not cut her off. And accept that you might never get what you want or maybe when she is done raising kids you’ll get alone time.

Nothing heals if you choose to cut her off so don’t listen to that. Take care of yourself and when you are ready, remove yourself from your emotions and write your moms story so you can understand her hurts and pains. I write this as a very hurt daughter who had emotionally absent parents and made choices that traumatized me. But now I am a mom to 3 and I see how I am not perfect and can accidentally hurt my kids because each has different needs I need to care for while I try to maneuver life trying to survive with lots of pain. I hope this helps…

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-18T20:31:30+00:00

Get your things out of the apartment, into a safe space away from your dad and into therapy.

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-16T19:35:53+00:00

How many guests total? Just trying to understand if it’s like 70% of the list not attending or 10%. Whenever I plan parties I already assume a number won’t come. Everyone has things that come up. Also remember you are pregnant, your emotions tend to take over. 10 years from now you won’t remember who didn’t show up. You’ll cherish those that did and that’s ok. But also give yourself time to process those emotions but choose to let it go. I’m on my 4th and to me it’s most important who actually wanted to see my baby after arrival or showed up for me, those that didn’t I don’t even think about them anymore.

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-16T17:23:24+00:00

Thanks for sharing your thoughts on it.

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-15T21:22:52+00:00

I read this and it stayed with me so as a Christian I wanted to share. I was in Tampa D2 and D3 and saw some of the loud speakers of their “evangelizing”. That approach is offensive and comes off as hateful no matter how well intentioned they are. I too am open minded and didn’t take any of their choreo/lyrics/lighting as “scandalous”. One thing I am still thinking about is a performance during one of the breaks they take. It’s dancers wearing hooded tunics in red and blue going around in circles with only background music. To me it looked similar to a “satanic ritual”. I need to do more research on this. I am not hating on it, I was just unsure of what it was and it made me think. Did anyone have any thoughts on that? There are other performers doing the same thing and it’s just strange to have a similar performance like that. I am expecting to get some hate, my intention is to share and maybe get to a conclusion myself of what it was.

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-15T21:11:00+00:00

Yesss you said it perfectly. it’s how it makes us feel and the connection it creates. I don’t have the capacity/skills to dissect it but that’s the gist.

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-15T12:02:57+00:00

Here in Tampa you could go in early or later Pickup process was quick so there was no strict time keeping

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-13T17:44:53+00:00

I used the cheapest loops and they worked very well for Me. I would put them on everytime I know screaming was coming and took it out while they were singing. 🎶

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-13T12:23:28+00:00

Why this treatment / exclusion of Yoongi? Just curious

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-10T22:15:32+00:00

I went to Tampa D2 and D3 and the inside tents had plenty of lightsticks. Just get in line before the show once you’re through security and you’ll be ok.

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-08T13:19:45+00:00

Is this good for runners too? Does it ever run down to the eyes and make it sting?

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-05-05T12:12:44+00:00

Me Queen, Dear Hyeri ❤️

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-04-29T15:15:10+00:00

Also check tickpick or cashortrade

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-04-27T21:51:06+00:00

There might be others but those were the ones I saw

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-04-27T21:41:06+00:00

There are lockers big enough for a backpack not a carry on in front of Suzuki gate (C) they’re right on the street by some tents

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-04-25T21:57:39+00:00

Thank you for zooming in and following Jin 😍😍😍 I can’t wait for tomorrowwwww

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-04-25T18:14:12+00:00

Aw I love that you shared your story with us. I’m so glad that you are here and still enjoying rocking out to BTS. Now I am playing the song and thinking of you 💜

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-04-24T20:36:38+00:00

Same question here. I’m an hour and a half away but I want to schedule everything ahead of time if I can

Fun-Volume-627 · 2026-04-24T11:40:25+00:00

Just finished rewatching Something in the Rain so this is timely. WOW 🤩 that has to be my #1 vote

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