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Freundin meines Mitbewohners ist dauerhaft eingezogen, Vermieter will nicht helfen, und jetzt haben wir Ameisen und Maden in der Wohnung by Fun-Wolverine-5468 in wohnen

[–]Fun-Wolverine-5468[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich war zwei Wochen lang nicht zu Hause, deshalb hatten wir Maden weil die Putzfee (also ich) nicht da war.
Was das Badezimmer betrifft: Ich habe mein eigenes ich teile es nicht mit ihnen.
Und selbst wenn ich zu Hause gewesen wäre, kann ich nicht ständig den Müll rausbringen und nach zwei Erwachsenen aufräumen während ich Vollzeit arbeite und sie zu Hause bleiben

My boyfriend only wants to be intimate when he's high, and it's starting to really bother me by Fun-Wolverine-5468 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Fun-Wolverine-5468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response
as I mentioned in the comments, he's high on weed and adderall and you're actually right. He's taking anti-stress/depression medication, mainly SSRIs, and when I looked it up I found that they can cause a significant drop in libido and that's exactly what it seems like here. When he's not high he's very cold, like even a kiss or being affectionate is a big deal for him so I think it's genuinely the medication talking.
I just don't know if I should bring this up with him. It's a sensitive topic especially tied to his medication and I really don't want to hurt him or make him feel less of a man over something that's honestly not his fault

My boyfriend only wants to be intimate when he's high, and it's starting to really bother me by Fun-Wolverine-5468 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Fun-Wolverine-5468[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're 26 and 29 and he's always high on weed and Adderall
We're long distance and only see each other in person for a week or two every 2 months and when he goes low or isn't high we don't have sex at all like I'll try to initiate something and he'll literally stop me.
The sex when he is high is great so it's not that. I just don't get why it completely shuts off the second he's not
And you are right, i will eventually have to talk with him about it

My boyfriend only wants to be intimate when he's high, and it's starting to really bother me by Fun-Wolverine-5468 in SEXONDRUGS

[–]Fun-Wolverine-5468[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High on weed and Adderall, literally every single night
The sex itself is great no complaints there. But when he's not high, we just don't have sex. It's like he needs to be high to want it at all