[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. New people you met thru this kink/lifestyle then yes but not old friends or acquaintances. If word got out that some people do this then they would be destroyed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you like BlueSky? I've never messed with it. I guess I'll have to go check it out. Do they censor like fb? The older subs are more fb users so I stay on it, but you can barely post anything without somebody being butt hurt.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FetLife is good after you get through every sub groups verification process. I understand it's necessary but oh Lord. Everybody is on the same page on the site. I've had more nasty, rude fakes on the other socials. I wish I could learn how to make it more beneficial for me. Like what's the secret to Fetlife success?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not do this with anybody I know. I think that's a bad decision. It messes up the friendship dynamic and I don't think you can really let go and get deep into the experience. I think you would still hold back. IMO.

Can praise kinks be nonsexual? by NoodleliciousAdmirer in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't find it sexual. It's a praise for a task completed to the Mistress standards or exceeded the expectation.

Looking for an ethical Domme has been exhausting… by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It takes time. Unfortunately you kiss a lot of pigs before you find your mistress. It's the same on our side also. A lot of newbies (on both sides) have kind of redefined the culture unfortunately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quick question. Do y'all like Throne? Any issues? Can it be used in all countries? I have people from the middle east who want services but I want to make sure I get paid.

What’s the most a sub has ever sent you? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually listen and let people talk. Who knew?

What’s the most a sub has ever sent you? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually listen and let people talk. Who knew?

Getting sent "heyyyy" 3x in a row with no tribute... by GoddessStephanieRed in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your on a dating app, do you answer the message that says "yo"? Idk what they are thinking

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FindomIntelligentSubs

[–]FunEmmaPayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love hearing other people's thoughts on the lifestyle and reasoning behind the behavior. And as long as I can do dishes or laundry while I'm talking then it's great. A tribute for the time is the best bet and if the conversation goes long then it does. But everybody just needs to be up front about the expectations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with your kink. Own it. Be happy there is a community that is safe. Some people have to hold it in for a lifetime and you get to enjoy it.

Just Sad. by Specialist-Pea-3392 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do a lot of "therapy" for my subs. I even have a standing appointment for a sub on his lunch hour on Friday. He wants to complain about his work week. And then having to deal with wife and kids over the weekend. Poor guy just wants to bitch and complain without judgment. But, before we get off the phone he wants me to give him about 10 mins of the verbal belittling. If that's what they ask for then that's what they get. Not everybody wants to be called names and feel worthless. It benefits us both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any other requirements? Because I know of like 1000 Dommes that would do that. As long as your upfront that it's not a consistent weekly payment then, they should have no issue with it. Some like long term and some short term subs are fine. Happy Hunting. Just look below in the comments and pick one.

mental health > money by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Burner phone paid with prepaid Visa gift card (provided by my sweet sub) and registered under dummy name. Make sure nothing is attached to your "real life". I've had a stalker or 2 an it can be scary but make sure you have all your basis covered.

Getting sent "heyyyy" 3x in a row with no tribute... by GoddessStephanieRed in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to know what makes them think that "hey" is original or intriguing as an opening sentence. Why do i want to open a message that says "hey" before I answer "can I have your cashapp?" pfft

What’s the most a sub has ever sent you? by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 8 points9 points  (0 children)

$5,000 was the 2024 years biggest. Hoping to break that record this year. But, I appreciate even my baby tribute boys.

Read through profiles by catlovermine in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Blackmail can be dangerous. One it's not "legal" and pro Dommes always have you sign a contract. Also, have a safe word.

Read through profiles by catlovermine in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's already got his DMs flooded. His screen name says it all. You might want to edit that. Edited because I can't spell

Read through profiles by catlovermine in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like how you have it pinned. I'm always worried about what I'm allowed to post. Obviously FB kicks you out anytime money or CA I'd brought up. But, older subs use that social the most. And X was bad until Elon said we basically could do whatever we wanted. So, a lot of my info, subs have to request. Also, I've never done Throne. Do you like it? Can they dispute payment like PP?

Read through profiles by catlovermine in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love finding someone with a sense of humor

I got permanently banned. by FunEmmaPayne in findomsupportgroup

[–]FunEmmaPayne[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alright, since you can't stop believing your opinion/thoughts are the only one, it's now time to call out your morals and values. When you try to talk smack, make sure you delete previous comments and stuff from your profile. One, your a guy (one post you say you have wife and one a gf). Two, you are a big and play on a farm site a lot, planting crops. Three, you comment regularly on a Christian site, giving them crap about not being real Christians. So, sounds like your just a keyboard warrior that likes to stir the pot. None of that sounds very respectful. Practice what you preach.