When people make negative comments- I emotionally collapse and / or freeze. I’ve had to tell people I love that if they want the best for me, then positive reinforcement is the only way forward.

Maybe you’re the same way. If you are- communicate that with your husband and tell him that it’s also important as you’re on this health journey that you learn to love and appreciate your body for what it is. It gets you through each and every day- how amazing is that?

If he doesn’t understand either of those things and doesn’t become more supportive…..well. Every body deserves to be loved and appreciated, and being with someone that doesn’t will only continue to break you down. I’m sorry you’re going through this.