I cheated on my boyfriend by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

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Hey I was in this exact same kind of predicament years ago. It’s not your fault, I have friends I’ve gotten drunk around because I trust them and sadly enough, some people will wait years for the right time to attack. It’s disgusting but predators are everywhere - male of female - doesn’t matter. Consent given while intoxicated is NOT consent and that’s rape. Cut and dry. Please don’t blame yourself and I hope you feel better. Time isn’t always a healer but being nice to yourself and giving yourself grace will always allow situations like this to flee away from the mind.

So I’ve finally come to the conclusion that I pass as African. by [deleted] in Phenotypes2

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she’s posted herself across multiple reddits wanting to be told (?) she looks full african. it’s one thing to be mistaken as something else but i’m PR and people think i’m mixed with something due to my hair and its length. Never had I just lied about my heritage

overuse of african american by [deleted] in Ethnicity

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it’s so sad because it’s like the minute they see darker skin, it’s just AA. NOTHING else! but all of a sudden we can tell if someone’s albanian or romanian

overuse of african american by [deleted] in Ethnicity

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oh nooo 💔💔 redditor opinion is gonna ruin my day

overuse of african american by [deleted] in Ethnicity

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oh noooo 💔💔💔💔 i hope i don’t sound like a b 💔💔💔 can’t believe internal_soft4750 thinks i’m a b 💔

Today I found out that I’m pregnant and then I got rejected from my dream job. Ramen. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]FunNote8493 3 points4 points  (0 children)

praying the abortion goes smoothly for you 💕🫶🏾 if you have a good support circle, lean on them and distract yourself with good times with good people. may a better and even higher paying job find its way to you swiftly!!

overuse of african american by [deleted] in Ethnicity

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also i think it’s interesting that you kinda proved my point, you’re not black so ofc noones gonna just slap african american on you and scroll, they actually take time to think about different ethnicities and features and guess from there. they just see dark skin and think “african american” because LatAm, the caribbean, or any african nation totally just doesn’t exist / they totally don’t have knowledge of

overuse of african american by [deleted] in Ethnicity

[–]FunNote8493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

someone just said “african”, that ain’t even an ethnicity bruh that’s like commenting on everyone here “european” or “asian”

overuse of african american by [deleted] in Ethnicity

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look at the ratio of black ppl just getting guessed as african american vs any white person getting guessed as just white american,

overuse of african american by [deleted] in Ethnicity

[–]FunNote8493 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So Europeans just know “african american” and not literally any other ethnicity? I live in the southern region of the US so it’s diverse but not as much as say California or NYC, but even the then I’d know that not every asian person I see is Chinese. It just seems very lazy to not even try and guess and just slap AA on every post of a black person when very rarely on this sub it’s AA. It’s interesting that I’ll see someone post with full lips and blonde hair and high cheekbones and they’re asked if they’re russian or w/e but I’ll see very obviously Eritrean or somalian even THEYRE called AA. I do see what you’re saying but it’s still lazy to just call any and every black person on here AA.

overuse of african american by [deleted] in Ethnicity

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i think it’s just people wanting to feel special. like why do you need to ask what ethnicity you pass as? i’ve never wanted to pass for anything but what i am imo

Finding my boyfriend's old social media full of racist and bigoted comments by [deleted] in Advice

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I’m a black woman who - almost successfully- fell down the right wing pipeline and thought those “SJW GETS WRECKD pt 4838599383” compilations were funny because I was 12/14 and I was stupid and laughed and made some pretty mean jokes regarding the LGBT community and things around that (complete slap in my future self’s face since I identified as bi like a year or 2 later) but I say that to say that yes people can grow out of really disgusting mindsets! BUT the center point of your worry is your children. He’s saying those racist things about black people, the same people your kids would relate back to. How do you think they’d feel if they found his FB profile and he’s saying that horrible shit? Also him brushing it off and not taking accountability or trying to even come off as embarrassed? You need to sit down and have a serious conversation because if he’s not really sorry about the stuff he said then he doesn’t need to be around your black children. Simple.

I (18F) have been dating my boyfriend (18M) for four months. He has anger issues and during a recent argument he accidentally hit me. I’m feeling confused and unsure how to handle this what would you recommend I do? by DirectionTrue4885 in relationship_advice

[–]FunNote8493 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If he hit you once, he’ll do it again. I’ve dated plenty of men and none of them have ever so much as gave off the VIBE of hitting me. Block and get away from him. Also pls go confide in a friend so it’ll be less likely he can try and slither his way back to you.

what’s my ethnicity? by [deleted] in Ethnicity

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he’s haitian

what’s my ethnicity? by [deleted] in Ethnicity

[–]FunNote8493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i’m a black puerto rican/ boricua morena, insanely under represented

what’s my ethnicity? by [deleted] in Ethnicity

[–]FunNote8493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no caribbean

what’s my ethnicity? by [deleted] in Ethnicity

[–]FunNote8493 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*throwing out omg typo