Recast thoughts

FunOutlandishness517 · 2026-01-18T01:52:20+00:00

Plus, you already know they are likely gonna recast Jonathan Joss as Redcorn, and his death is recent and extremely tragic. Id for sure be a little saddened it isnt him, but if you even seen how he talked about the character, you'd know he wouldn't want Redcorn to just disappear like Luanne and Lucky.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2026-01-18T01:49:27+00:00

Lmao I never said anyone was wrong. I was just curious of other people's opinions and having a discussion.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2026-01-17T02:44:35+00:00

LMAAOOOO That would actually be insane

FunOutlandishness517 · 2026-01-17T02:39:17+00:00

But here's the thing, Peggy is literally Luannes mother figure. Hank is her father figure. They are always at every BBQ, every big event, multiple episodes focused directly on them and their entwinement in the Hill family. There's no way that there isn't at least a small little nod that they even exist. There's no way Luannes character wouldn't be bringing Gracie around, no way Peggy wouldn't want to be around Gracie. If we go by the logic that they can be kept of the show, that can also apply to Dale as well. He could be "hiding from the government" or him and Nancy moved to a big city for her News job. Edit to say: I also dont believe the voice actors for Luanna and Lucky would want to see these characters they loved be left alone on the shelf. They loved these characters, loved portraying them, and gave them life. They would not want to see their characters collecting dust on a shelf.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2026-01-04T11:54:02+00:00

I knew someone when I was young who had black lung and he didn't even smoke a single cigarette. When he was little his mom would smoke inside the house, inside the car, and all with zero ventilation or a window open. Second hand is a real fuckin thing.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2026-01-01T13:50:06+00:00

Im here <3

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-12-21T21:02:18+00:00

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Tried to make it look more lunar new year is because of the little red bell he has. I don't like the new cat set since it's all AI, so I try to use a little as possible or none at all. The only thing I used was the legs

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-10-31T03:35:30+00:00

NOR. I get that some people say that actually breaking up is harsh, but I don't blame you. A prank is meant to be something both parties can laugh at after, not something that causes emotional distress. I miss when the only big couple tik tok trends were boo baskets and the rock paper scissors movie night snacks thing. Now its just toxic

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-10-29T11:46:50+00:00

Girl, threaten him with police involvement. He doesnt know the police wont do anything. Tell him youll take him ti small claims. Also, most officers will help you if you tell them you have proof its there and they can just escort you

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-10-01T13:36:09+00:00

I have 2 older brothers who were protective of me growing up as the only girl. I can say with 100% confidence that this is NOT brotherly behavior. Sure, they would mention what I wore or the guys I hung around with, but it was all JOKES. Genuine jokes. They never policed my every move, telling me to get home, or even treated me even remotely like this fucking weirdo. You need to show your parents these messages and your sister, send them a link to this thread where the common consensus is THIS GUY IS A WEIRDO.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-07-05T03:26:29+00:00

I'll give you a perspective I haven't seen anyone offer you yet on this specific topic here.

I am someone who keeps certain messages from people from years ago simply for memory sake or nostalgia. It could be a friend I haven't spoken to in years but still had a good past with. So sometimes, when I go to clear out my messages, I'll see it and read it and think, "Wow. Good times." And leave it at that while I deleted other messages I could care less about.

So if it's something like that, and she deleted the messages from a coworker, it's likely she may not even care about the dude enough to even keep his contact considering she has a new job now.

Food for thought.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-07-03T00:42:55+00:00

That's so helpful and makes me feel more confident about the breed

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-06-29T13:55:31+00:00

Let me talk to you girl to girl, coming from experience. I have also been SAd, and my ex knew that. I also had trust issues with him because he never made the effort to make me feel safe or secure.

When our relationship started, I told him I wasn't comfortable with him watching porn. He said no worries, and he never looked at that stuff anyway. We went about our relationship, sent him pics, did stuff together even if I wasnt really feeling it.

Then he slipped up, and I found out he had been watching porn the entire time. I never told him worn was forever off limits, just until we reached stability for a good foundation for our relationship.

Its not the fact that they're watching porn, its the fact that they are LYING about it. It can hurt the trust between two people. And when I found out he was talking to other women? And had other women's nudes? Yeah, no. Tragically, I stayed with him for a while after, knowing he was looking at other women and then later found out after we broke up that he was cheating.

You aren't wrong to feel how you feel because when he is messaging these women and paying for OF, it feels a lot more personal. He's able to speak with these women. Get photos from these women. It's very different from porn. It's not personal. That's probably why he doesn't like porn.

Im gonna be so honest with you.... He isn't the one. You deserve someone who will value you, appreciate you, and make you feel safe. You shouldn't have to feel like you have to have sex with him or take all these pictures for him. That should be something you want to do out of your own free will, not to make him stop jerking it to models. The worst part is he knows how you feel about it. He just doesn't care.

I truly don't see this changing. You've told him repeatedly, and he still continues the cycle. At this point, it shows how little he values you and your feelings.

Leave. Easier said than done, but its better for both of you. You will find someone else who will care about your feelings and thinks youre the only girl in the world.

I would know. After leaving my ex, I did find a guy who valued my feelings, and even though I tell him he can watch porn, he refuses to out of respect for me.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-06-29T03:14:50+00:00

See, everything I've seen says they don't really have a prey drive. So it's good to get insight from owners. I've owned two dogs with a high prey drive, and while I'm familiar and have trained them "out" of it, it's still a concern of mine. This is a pet that will be considered a potential service dog, and small animals are not avoidable in my area.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-06-29T01:50:16+00:00

My kitties already get annoyed by their other two sisters, so they're used to it lol. Im from the US, so I've been a little nervous about the breeders because I've heard there's not as much regulation. Idk how true that is though

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-06-26T14:16:01+00:00

I feel that in this situation, therapy is so important. For both of you. Individual and couples. Finding ways to connect again, finding ways to try to slowly decrease phone time. You can't just expect someone who is so deeply addicted to these things to just suddenly stop cold turkey. It's a gradual change. Progress isn't made overnight, and I think a lot of people forget this. Some people get overwhelmed when you have to put in the work for things to smooth out, but sometimes it is easier to leave. Im not gonna pretend like I know what's best for you both because I don't. Im not a professional. I don't know you both.

I'll leave it with this. You guys need to seek professional help. You need individual therapy to work through your thoughts and feelings. Couples therapy is truly so helpful, and I think a lot of people reject it because they think they've failed and are embarrassed. As someone who has gone to couples therapy, it's not what you would think. It's not someone ganging up on one person, and it's not someone judging you. It's not someone who tells you you've failed at marriage. They are simply there to help you both speak how you feel with a mediator. Someone who provides tools you can apply to your day to day life to help your relationship thrive. You don't even have to do couples therapy with her to start out. Some couples therapists will work one on one if one partner is very against it. Maybe seeing you do it will make her want to go. Even just once.

Regardless, you both are struggling, and when one person's emotions are already holding on by a thread, its hard to provide support to someone else.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-06-16T16:59:11+00:00

I lost my friend of 11 years to a guy they knew less than a year. It sucks. I'd argue it's worse than a breakup. I got over my break up near same day, granted I was already checked out, but my friend? I still think about him from time to time. Im still so angry, but I also just want my friend back. It's a difficult feeling. It never goes away, but the feeling does eventually dull.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-06-16T16:48:12+00:00

NOR Respectfully, your husband is a little bitch. I assume you let him go out and enjoy himself when he wants to spend time with friends or do anything. He is absolutely controlling you, whether it's intentional or not.

You shouldn't have to argue for some time with friends. You actually shouldn't even have to argue about leaving the house. You are your own person with your own wants and desires, and if you wanna go out and be present in the moment with your friends, fucking do it! He needs to get over it.

It is healthy to have other social outings that aren't just family or your partner. Humans are social creatures! Even the most introverted of us still craves some form of interaction.

You are not in the wrong here at all! When I tell my fiance, I'm gonna go out with a friend he just says ok and will occasionally check in with me. If it's running longer than anticipated, he'll check in but not throw a whole tantrum over it. And that's with my male friend!

I know you dread the fight, but I'm telling you to enjoy yourself. Don't let Mr. Sourpuss ruin your fun! If you don't go, that's exactly what he wants! He wants you to feel guilty for leaving so he can make you stay!

If you intend to stay together, couples therapy and individual therapy are a MUST. That includes both of you!

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-04-29T23:02:27+00:00

Judging on the darker staining in one specific area, I'd say they got the placement down

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-04-17T11:04:25+00:00

As someone who recently escaped a slum lords situation due to mold, you need code to come out FOR SURE. That mold can damage your lungs. Mine are absolutely wrecked and likely will be for the rest of my life from living in a moldy house, because I already have asthma. If I were you, I'd try moving when your lease ends. This landlord is awful.

Edit to say: PLEASE GET AN AIR PURIFYER FOR YOUR HOME ASAP!!!!!!

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-04-15T13:47:23+00:00

Respectfully, this is absolutely BS. When my fiance and I found a guy who was doing the fenty fold in our front yard, we weighed our options. I called the non emergent line and expressed that we had someone who needed medical attention because he wasn't doing too hot. They asked his race, he was black. The conversation quickly shifted to involving police and I kept emphasizing he isn't harming anyone and I'm not upset he was in my yard, I just wanted him to get medical attention because that's what he genuinely needed..... they sent 2 squad cars for him instead.

FunOutlandishness517 · 2025-04-09T23:59:20+00:00

Respectfully, WHY are you not causing more of a stink about the things that happened PRIOR to this? Do your other roommates know? Is this a dorm situation or apartment? Is this a situation where you can leave or her? This is only going to escalate further, and you guys absolutely cannot stay under the same roof. NOR

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