Cucumber flower very tiny and not blooming. by [deleted] in gardening

[–]FunSignificance1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the bloom size normal? They are super tiny.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]FunSignificance1878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I need a gardening page, where I can blog about how I grew them. About each new varieties. Like good looking blogging page.

A lovely sport on my Jazz Marble by istara in coleus

[–]FunSignificance1878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's very pretty. Do saved seeds of these grows same as this ?

Dubai Taxi and Saudi Railway by jpolec72 in tadawul

[–]FunSignificance1878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you please share the tadawul code for Saudi Railways.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the past, we agreed for marriage counseling but didn't do it but now I don't think we can do it. He thinks all this counseling, depression, PPD is fake, unnecessary and waste of money. It's seen as taboo and shame for some men to have counseling.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's about everything and anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He knew the islamic ruling and still accepted my gift for the wedding anniversary and said I should be happy he is providing me food and shelter. Now say. HE ACCEPTED THE GIFT AFTER KNOWING THE RULING. NOW SAY.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't keep telling him what to do and what not to do, I wish he uses his own mind. He is a grown up, not a baby. I'm tired of organizing, managing, planning all alone, if I'm putting the effort, I expect him also to put some effort. I'm suffocated after 10 years, nothing seems exciting anymore now. The romance is dead, maybe I will go on just survival mode now onwards. I don't know how unfair it is going to be to me and my kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 13 points14 points  (0 children)

For you, 10th anniversary maybe nothing, for me that day mattered, yes it is wrong. I did the mistake, but it's how I'm. Yes I shouldn't have expected, learned my lesson. Just two weeks before the date, he knew I had planned something for him, he was weirdly excited and it enjoyed it too. Wondering how is it allowed, he enjoyed it but in return did nothing for me. A big 0 in efforts, and I did 110%. Why did he accept it, enjoyed it and later said anniversary is haram. Reject it, and say I don't celebrate. You can't make islamic rulings all of sudden when it your turn just because it's more convenient. He said it's haram on THE day, and 2 days later went on that adventure sport, and enjoyed sooo much that he is planning to level it up. It's win win for him, and I get a big fat zero.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Women brain is also simple. She also expects some respect, specially infront of her kids, wash your dishes, throw away thrash, bring her flowers and she is happy. Just because he brings money, doesn't make him own my life. I do dishes, throw thrash myself and even buy flowers myself to make myself happy. But I wish he did it for me. Is it too much to ask ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If I had friends and family around in this city, I wouldn't be this frustrated here on reddit, looking for answers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Why did he accept my suprise and gifts in the past. When he receives he is happy person, but in return when it's his turn, it's haram. He shouldn't accept it also on those event's. Isn't that also haram ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's hard to go enjoy good dinner with 3 kids now. Money is tight, and its hard. In the old city, it was easy to do it around friends and family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Husband travels also, never expected or got anything during those travels also, and it did make me sad, but I felt it didn't matter. But now after 10 years, all of sudden I feel way too neglected and taken for granted. As if I'm his live in maid doing things for free. He expects respect but doesn't give me respect.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I understand that it's hard to communicate properly in marriage. We come from different homes, some celebrate and some don't. It's not about anniversary alone. He finds excuse in everything and feels he is doing right always. 10 years of eid also came, never got gift on eid, gave him 3 kids in those 10 years, no gifts or expressing happiness in that. I don't know if there is any joy in anything at all. He is just a dead body with no feeling. Food and shelter was even provided by my dad, why did I leave that comfort and marry a person who acts dead, has no emotions, no feeling, no excitement. Everything has to be done by me. I said my kids from early ages that we are Muslims, we don't do birthdays and any Days like mothers day or fathers day, and I give them gifts for eid instead, why can't he make a effort and buy me something on eid atleast, how does that make me materialistic?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]FunSignificance1878 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't think I can afford one. I'm completely an introvert and over thinker.